The first part, you nailed it. I have questioned God. I buried a child - my own. That raised alot of questions. Anger, rage, depression, helplessness ----- so much. But, EVERYTHING, even the loss of my little girl, happens for a reason. God supplied more after that loss that I could have asked for. I married a man with 2 daughters, thus I was immediately given children. I now have 2 of my own, as well. Everything happens for a reason and I thank God that He knows better than me.
NO, you put words into my mouth. I'm not here to judge anyone. I'm not going to say who goes to hell and does not. If you read my posts you will see that. And, either way, whatever Hell may be like - no, I'm proud to say I do not fear it. Jesus went to prepare a place in Heaven for me. I need not worry too much about the rest. I believe in what He promised me. I'm not here for Ghandi or Socrates. They are not even here. And, I don't have to decide where they are. Why does it concern you? Do you not believe in any hereafter anyway?