Our culture has great trouble dealing with the complexities of death.
IOW, there shouldn't be any complexities....but we (not me) make'm.
Every country has its own individual daftnesses, I reckon.
In the UK our dumb'n'daft warehouses are overflowing just at this time, so my comments about execution in some US States are only intended in friendly humour.
I do understand complexities with death, though. Humans can be knocked sideways by the death of a particular little dog, but don't mind about 'dog' being an everyday dish in some other countries.. Bring that concept forwards to human life and the complexities can only explode.
I don't think that victims or relatives of victims should have any involvement with convicts' punishments, or convicts' rehabilitation, but here in the UK our Parole Board has just been stripped of some of its powers in deference to 'punishments handed out by victims'.