VoidCat
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So my foster parents granddaughter visited. While she was eating she asked this:"Where is your mom?"
Now I cannot lie to a kid specially one so young but i knew she would not understand what fostercare is. However I did not want to not answer the question as she just was trying to understand the world around her and to me that's not a bad thing...So this is what I said: "You know your grandma?Well she is my mother for the time being..."To which she replied: "She is?" Me: "Yes" Her:" ok...what's your favorite color?" So like I was wondering what other people would have done in this situation? Would you answer the child or would you discourage the question? What would you have done?
Now I cannot lie to a kid specially one so young but i knew she would not understand what fostercare is. However I did not want to not answer the question as she just was trying to understand the world around her and to me that's not a bad thing...So this is what I said: "You know your grandma?Well she is my mother for the time being..."To which she replied: "She is?" Me: "Yes" Her:" ok...what's your favorite color?" So like I was wondering what other people would have done in this situation? Would you answer the child or would you discourage the question? What would you have done?