@The Artis Magistra what you perceive as passive aggression is really me trying to understand a person, and reason with that person.
I really am trying to do so in a nice way.
However, I find it is often not that easy, when persons apparently are so defensive, and ....
You see, I usually hold back from speaking my mind on certain things... unless I strongly believe you need to hear it. Otherwise, I keep quiet about it.
That's not cowardly, imo. I view it as avoiding further tension, if I realize the person has already taken the defensive.
I would consider it cowardly, when one is not "always ready to make a defense before everyone who demands of you a reason for the hope you have" - 1 Peter 3:15
To me, that s saying that one just wants to be comfortable with what they believe, and they don't take it lightly for anyone whom might make them feel uncomfortable about it.
So it bothers them, and they can't speak kindly to that person anymore... In fact they stop speaking to the person.
The person has not attacked them, or is not seeking to do them harm. In fact, I think rather than take offense at what someone says, the wise thing to do, is consider, if that person is trying to help, because they have your best interest at heart, rather than assume the person has set out to damage you. (Ecclesiastes 7:9)
However, none of this is new to me. I know how people guard the religion they prefer - not because they know it is the truth (most people don't even believe that is attainable),but because it suits them... as was mentioned.
So like I said before... no need to repeat it
, I have been enlightened.
Now. are you finished, or do you want to continue your rant. By the way, don't you think you are bullying...? ...but if you feel justified...
Also, it's your prerogative to believe / feel / think what you like. Those never reveal the real truth.
I can't think of anything more that I want to say on this, so... Have a good day, and take care.