Its not surprising anymore, after about the 3,678th time saying it, though he gets what he wants enough of the time...You should follow your husband's advice, surprise is the spice of life.
A surprise would be "I've shut off my phone so we can play a board game together." Now that would get me in the mood.
I don't snore, but I wake often to check on everyone...I think @JustGeorge would be a compatible companion.
I'd be a good guard.