Don't be discouraged. My question was genuine. However, so far no Christian has offered a single example of God's demonstration of love without invoking a human sacrifice or just pointing to a verse that overtly states, "that god loves you". It says that God IS love, but it is likely impossible to point to a biblical text where God (Yahweh) performed a specific act of love for someone. I would expect many examples of a God of love, a God that IS love, to have straightforwardly shown direct evidence many times over of his love. Something where there is a win win for everyone. Not military victories, that boastfully award virgins among the great plunder.
Let's take a look at the life of Joseph, starting with his family, the 12 sons of Jacob (later called Israel):
[Again, for your benefit, we will treat this as a work of fiction and focus on any lessons about human nature and character development.]
(Genesis Chapter 29 through 35) - feel free to read it for yourself
Jacob loves Rachel, tricked to marry Leah … Leah has sons, but no love … Rachel has love, but no sons.
1. (Leah) Rueben “behold a son” … will her husband love her now.
2. (Leah) Simeon “hearer” … the Lord heard her tears.
3. (Leah) Levi “attachment” … hope of a relationship with her husband.
4. (Leah) Judah “praise” … she praises God.
5. (Rachel’s slave) Dan “judgment” … Rachel views the child of the flesh as vindication and lifting of her own judgment by human power.
6. (Rachel’s slave) Naphtali “wrestle” … child openly named in commemoration of the power struggle in the house between her and her sister.
7. (Leah’s slave) Gad “troop” … just a number, more pawns in a fight.
8. (Leah’s slave) Asher “happy” … not for the child, for the status symbol.
9. (Leah) Issachar “reward” … believes God rewarded her for having her husband bed her slave.
10. (Leah) Zebulon “dweller” … she still longs for her husband to live with her and love her.
11. (Rachel) Joseph “may he add” … God granted a miracle, but Rachel can only see Leah is still ahead.
12. (Rachel) … Rachel died in childbirth – Ben-Oni “son of sorrow” – Jacob changed his name to Benjamin “son of my strength”.
So the basic situation, Jacob has two wives. His first wife is unloved and spends her entire life attempting to win her husbands approval (which I don't think she ever gets).
The second wife is a trophy wife who has her husbands love but bears the shame of infertility.
From the names, the children appear to be little more than pawns in this power struggle between 'their mother' and 'that other woman'.
(Genesis Chapter 37) - feel free to read it for yourself
Gen 37:4 "When his brothers saw that their father loved him more than any of them, they hated him and could not speak a kind word to him."
Joseph was Jacobs pampered favorite and hated by his brothers. Imagine growing up in a family so dysfunctional that your older brothers hated you and wanted you dead.
Joseph had a proud heart that needed to be softened if he was to be of service to God.
The brothers attempt to kill Joseph, but God spares his life and he ends the chapter in Egypt ... which is where God needs Joseph to complete his training, soften his heart and save God's people.
ACT OF LOVE #1: Whether Rachel ever appreciated it or not, God gave her a son. God also set in motion a plan that would change this ugly family dynamic forever. God was not responsible for the problem, but in love, he was committed to the cure.
ACT OF LOVE #2: God spoke to Joseph in dreams. This revealed hints of God's plan to Joseph so that he would recognize that God's hand was behind everything in the end. God also revealed the reality of himself to Joseph in a special way that would help him through the hard times.
ACT OF LOVE #3: God protected Joseph and placed him where he needed to be to become both great and a servant of God.
The story goes on with far more acts of love, but I have done enough of your homework ...