The idea that homosexuals are born is an assumption based on nothing.
This is simply not true.
For one thing, the term "are born" is painfully simplistic. There are zillions of factors that result in the complex and subtle, and poorly understood, thing called sexual attraction. Genetics is statistically proven to be one(large) factor. But nobody even knows that we know what all the factors are. What causes any particular person to be sexually aroused by anything in particular is just not known. What makes most adult men interested in boobs?
But here's my real point.
Despite my efforts as a young man to "straighten myself out", boobs just never did anything for me. Regardless of whether you accept my testimony or not,
I know this for a fact! Whether or not I was "born" gay, I certainly didn't want or choose such an affliction. The very idea is ridiculous. Claiming that I did is ignorant. And with all the information available in this day and age that ignorance looks totally like willful ignorance.
So when someone I know will make demonstrably false statements like that also makes implausible assertions like "Jesus Rose from the Dead" or "Muhammad is the Seal of the Prophets" I don't trust them. I can't. I know them too well.
Tom