Responsible educated people know how to have sex without it leading to babies.
When we had our first child, I was 35. It was completely and utterly planned.
I've been together with my woman since highschool. Meaning that we were together for
19 years by the time we got pregnant
on purpose.
I can assure you that we didn't abstain from sex during those 19 years.
The only weeks were nothing happened, was when the communists were in town.
So a quick calculation tells me that we had sex roughly ~1000 times without getting pregnant while not wanting to get pregnant. That's a 100% succes rate.
It's actually pretty funny because when we finally decided that we wanted a kid.... we had sex once and the first test we took couple days later was positive, LOL!
At first we thought we were simply ridiculously lucky. But then we decided to get number 2. And sure enough... first try, BINGO.
We are so fertile! LOL
Which makes it all the more impressive in a way that we went for
19 years without getting pregnant on purpose.