This feeling could be pain. It is said that love hurts, so is that feeling pain? The criteria for identifying what is love and what is not seems to be entirely subjective and hence a matter of belief only. One who self mutilates might call the release or pleasure/pain they get out from it to be love.
One might label the release of endorphins into the body as love. Does that mean everytime they are released one is feeling love? How does one measure if it is love one is experiencing. Again it is unknowable.
There is a feeling, I call it love, it is commonly defined as: 1.a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. 2.a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.
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I can accept this though it does not convey the totality.
Now I need to look at the meaning of all those words. Then the meaning of the meaning of the words that define those words and so on. There is still no knowledge just a pursuit of emptiness.
The feeling exist, the word refers to it. When I feel a deep, profound affection, I call it love.
Again, without being able to measure feeling, one cannot say what measure of feeling constitutes love. You said profound, how profound? What defines profound?
I think you do injustice to the western ideal of love.
Although it commonly used in that context. The definition of love is different for everybody, because it is subjective. As it is subjective you cannot even be sure yourself of what it means. How do you know that what you have called love is not really just varying degrees of pain?
That is not true, we know what love is, to us. You are acting like there is an objective meaning to the word "love". It is a subjective feeling that we all experience uniquely.
No we don't. If we did, I wouldn't be debating the proposition with you. There are plenty of people who don't believe love exists. It's another made up fiction.
As I said, you are hung up on words, when the words are not the thing. Regardless of whether I call it love or pasta, the underlying feeling exists and that is what I am conveying. Fortunately, in general, there is a common understanding with the word love, so when I am trying to convey the feeling, "love" is, just, adequate for my purposes.
There can be no common definition of what a subjective feeling is, because it cannot be measured. How can I know that my 'love' is the same as your 'love'?
Here is an interesting idea from Krisna: The physical world is a plane of suffeing. There is no love here, just pain. What do you think of that idea?