at least you are now much better!
I can't believe how religion is unfortunately encouraging homophobia and biphobia even more so. I suppose that people around you thought that you were a just "not trying hard enough" to be heterosexual...
A few. What hurt even more was the biphobia that exists within the queer community itself. I dated a couple of women who were terrified that I would leave them for a man. That being bisexual meant I didn't know what commitment was, and that unless I was fully hetero or fully lesbian, that I was a risk factor.
But, strange enough, there are people who upon finding out about how hubbie and I date outside our marriage, think that if I'm dating a woman it doesn't count, but if I'm dating a man that he's a threat. Again, even though people will fully support queer rights for same sex marriage and protection from discrimination in adoption, housing, and employment, the hangover remains that my same sex attraction is really only "playtime", and not to be taken all that seriously. This comes from
both queers and straights alike.
On that note, it's sad that transphobia exists so rampantly in the queer community, too. I once dated a lesbian who would often become visibly angry when a transgendered person would identify her gender as female, though she was born with male genitalia. My girlfriend couldn't accept that she was a "she," and would angrily rant about how they're not real, that they're delusional, that they're sick, etc.
That relationship didn't last long at all after that. There were other reasons for me breaking up with her, but her tirades over transgendered people turned my stomach.