Note: I'm open to a real debate here, if anyone will have it. Yes, I am arguing for my point but f anyone can refute me and show me good reason and evidence I'm willing to adapt or change my view.
Introduction
So I heard it argued here as well as privately with some RF members that one can not have privilege that only groups can. Which flies in the face of everything I've ever heard about the debate in the last 2 years. It seems to me that if one can make any generalization about a group necessarily that has to apply to some individuals about the group, or else it wouldn't be possible to make the generalization in the first place.
If privilege isn't something someone can have, why do I feel that I'm really disadvantaged in my own life and see others with advantages I don't have or never could given preferential treatment?
Preferential treatment, bias, bigotry, and double standards is really what comprises what people call "privilege". Those things are very real on the level of an individual person, measurable even to a degree, so why would someone argue that privilege is just a statistical thing that only applies to groups?
Privilege in everyday life
According to Every Day Feminism: http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/07/what-checking-privilege-means
(Disclaimer: I don't usually agree with this site but it hit the head on the nail in terms of how people do, in my opinion, have privilege individually.)Because we all carry around privilege of some kind.
Simply put, this means that we may, unknowingly, have certain advantages over others. And this is only because there are aspects of our identity that society values over others.
For example, growing up, I came from a middle-class background. I never experienced food or financial insecurity. I didn’t have a job while I was in high school, and I was able to attain a good education. It was assumed, by default, that I would be high-achieving. As a result, my teachers invested a lot in my success.
In contrast, poorer classmates that I knew experienced near-constant food and financial insecurity. As a result, this impacted their focus, their emotional wellbeing, and their grades. Teachers simply assumed that they were “lost causes” that didn’t care about their schooling. Consequently, they didn’t spend as much time mentoring those classmates as they did mentoring me.
So here we have a story of very real advantages someone had in life due to socio-economic status. I could give examples in my own life, in the lives of people I've known, many of you probably know of others in similar situations ect. The fact is, privilege is something that everyone has some of...
The Scholar who popularized the term privilege says individuals can have
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Hey look, it's The Atlantic: What the Origin of 'Check Your Privilege' Tells Us About Today's Privilege Debates
Maybe the arguments haven't changed, but the mode of debate has. Privilege is still the idea that society grants unearned rewards to certain people based on their race, gender, sexuality, etc — checking your privilege means acknowledging the role those rewards play in your life and the lives of less privileged people.
Basically the article is about the woman who wrote a 1988 paper that brought the terminology mainstream. She goes on to point out that everyone has some form of privilege:
"When Tal Fortgang was told, 'Check your privilege' — which is a flip, get-with-it kind of statement — it infuriated him, because he didn’t want to see himself systematically," MacIntosh said. "But what I believe is that everybody has a combination of unearned advantage and unearned disadvantage in life." That's the key: "everyone" benefits from and is a victim of privilege.
So Peggy MacIntosh, the Woman's Studies Scholar who popularized the term, says individuals can have privilege. I'm gonna trust her over any of ya'll unless you can provide a thorough refutation of what she said in that article.
How much privilege do you have?
I found many quizzes, charts ect on google that told me what they thought.
One example: How Privileged Are You?
You live with 30 out of 100 points of privilege.
You're not privileged at all. You grew up with an intersectional, complicated identity, and life never let you forget it. You've had your fair share of struggles, and you've worked hard to overcome them. We do not live in an ideal world and you had to learn that the hard way. It is not your responsibility to educate those with more advantages than you, but if you decide you want to, go ahead and send them this quiz. Hopefully it will help.
There are a lot more and ya, none really look scientific. But from taking 2 or 3 different quizzes and adding up by a chart all said I was pretty disadvantaged in life when I answered honestly. This is gonna sound crazy but I think the Buzzfeed one was probably the best thought out of them all, not that that is saying much.
Anyways I don't really know how one could measure privilege but given how widespread "check your privilege" is now... surely everyone has their own idea. I personally think I'm disadvantaged for some private reasons I won't get into, but I don't ever really talk about it. I just do the best I can to deal with it and improve my quality of life.