I think you sincerely believe what you wrote is the truth. But, in my opinion, it represents more of the same line of malarkey that the Church has been dispensing throughout its history.
If it's malarkey as you claim, then how can I source a gazillion documents from the medieval - early modern period testifying to it?
I'm not making up the doctrine of baptism by explicit or implicit desire. It's there to read and study, actually the justification for it first arose in the New Testament, at
1 John 5:7, "
There are three that testify: the Spirit and the water and the blood, and these three agree".
Feenyism is the belief that baptism of blood and baptism of desire (which is a de fide doctrine of the RC), whether explicit or implicit, cannot save a person if they die before receiving actual water baptism and that justification is not sanctifying grace. That's a heresy flatly condemned by the Council of Trent in the 1500s and before that by Pope Innocent II in the 13th century.
COUNCIL OF TRENT (1545-1563)
Canons on the Sacraments in General (Canon 4):
“If anyone shall say that the sacraments of the New Law are not necessary for salvation, but are superfluous, and that although all are not necessary for every individual, without them or without the desire of them (sine eis aut eorum voto),through faith alone men obtain from God the grace of justiflcation; let him be anathema.”
Decree on Justification (Session 6, Chapter 4):
“In these words...a sinner is given as being a translation from that state in which man is born a child of the first Adam to the state of grace and of the ‘adoption of the Sons’ (Rom. 8:15) of God through the second Adam, Jesus Christ, our Savior and this translation after the promulgation of the Gospel cannot be effected except through the layer of regeneration or a desire for it, (sine lavacro regenerationis aut eius voto)”
Or in the early 20th, long before 1942:
FR. ALOYSIA SABETTI, S.J., FR. TIMOTHEO BARRETT, S.J., Compendium Theologiae Moralis, Tractatus XII [De Baptismo, Chapter I, 1926:
Baptism, the gate and foundation of the Sacraments, in fact or at least in desire, is necessary for all unto salvation...
From the Baptism of water, which is called of river (Baptismus fluminis), is from Baptism of the Spirit (Baptismus flaminis) and Baptism of Blood, by which Baptism properly speaking can be supplied, if this be impossible. The first one is a full conversion to God through perfect contrition or charity, in so far as it contains an either explicit or at least implicit will... Baptism of Spirit (flaminis) and Baptism of Blood are called Baptism of desire (in voto).
21. FR. EDUARDUS GENICOT, S., Theologiae Moralis Institutiones (Vol. II), Tractatus XII, 1902
Baptism of the Spirit (flaminis) consists in an act of perfect charity or contrition, with which there is always an infusion of sanctifying grace connected...
Both are called “of desire” (in voto)...; perfect charity, because it has always connected the desire, at least the implicit one, of receiving this sacrament, absolutely necessary for salvation.
At the age of seven, in 1942, a priest told me that, if I believed as a Catholic, I would go to Heaven. If not, I'd go to Hell. Protestants, he added with obvious delight, were headed for Hell. All my Catholic friends and relatives were told the same thing by different priests.
Well, he and they must have been poorly educated in their own religion (I doubt he's in a list of the top-ranking theologians of the 20th century?), because Pope St. Pius X had stated the following clearly in his 1910 Catechism:
CATECHISM OF ST
17 Q: Can the absence of Baptism be supplied in any other way?
A: The absence of Baptism can be supplied by martyrdom, which is called Baptism of Blood, or by an act of perfect love of God, or of contrition, along with the desire, at least implicit, of Baptism, and this is called Baptism of Desire.
29 Q. But if a man through no fault of his own is outside the Church, can he be saved?
A. If he is outside the Church through no fault of his, that is, if he is in good faith, and if he has received Baptism, or at least has the implicit desire of Baptism; and if, moreover, he sincerely seeks the truth and does God's will as best he can such a man is indeed separated from the body of the Church, but is united to the soul of the Church and consequently is on the way of salvation...
He who finds himself outside without fault of his own [therefore], and who lives a good life, can be saved by the love called charity, which unites unto God, and in a spiritual way also to the Church, that is, to the soul of the Church.
In the exact same year as this particular priest spoke with you in 1942, there were two very learned priests who held an American Catholic talk show on radio by the name of Rumble and Carty. They stated in response to this very question:
179. Would a good and practicing Jew go to heaven, despite his not being baptized a Christian?
Yes, provided through no fault of his own he did not at any time advert to the truth of Christianity, and to the necessity of actual baptism; and provided he sincerely believed Judaism to be still the true religion, and died truly repentant of all serious violations of conscience during life.
Source: Radio Replies, third volume, by Fathers Rumble and Carty, Radio Replies Press, St. Paul 1, Minn., U.S.A., copyright 1942, page 43.
1942. Same year. Humbly, I would suggest that your priest wasn't following the party line and had no justification for teaching heresy to a minor, if he was consciously aware of doing so. Perhaps he was a Jansenist or Feeneyite, or perhaps he just hadn't studied theology to the degree he should have. It's not surprising that such views were brought into line by 1949 in the U.S. Clearly, it had been a pervasive heresy in America, perhaps due to the fundamentalist culture.
If he had published those views in an official document, he might have pipped Fr. Feeney to excommunication by a few years.
Now, if this belief was a "common misconception" as you assert, it would only have taken a brief statement by any of the popes to deny it and set the record straight. But that has never happened. Not ever.
Yes it did, first when the Jansenists were condemned in 1690 and 1713 (as quoted in a prior post of mine), then by Pope Pius IX in 1854 and 1863, and then again by Pope Pius XII in 1949 over the Feeney debacle. That's a consistent papal line over the course of three centuries and a long time before Vatican II.
For the Pius IX statements in the mid-nineteenth century, see:
POPE PIUS IX (1846-1878) — Singulari Quadam, 1854:
174. “It must likewise be held as certain that those who are affected by ignorance of the true religion, if it is invincible ignorance, are not subject to any guilt in this matter before the eyes of the Lord. Now, then, who could presume in himself an ability to set the boundaries of such ignorance, taking into consideration the natural differences of peoples, lands, native talents, and so many other factors? Only when we have been released from the bonds of this body and see God just as He is (see John 3:2) all we really understand how close and beautiful a bond joins divine mercy with divine justice.”
Quanto Conficiamur Moerore (1863):
“...We all know that those who are afflicted with invincible ignorance with regard to our holy religion, if they carefully keep the precepts of the natural law that have been written by God in the hearts of men, if they are prepare to obey God, and if they lead a virtuous and dutiful life, can attain eternal life by the power of divine light and grace.”
I think that, like humanity itself, the Catholic Church has been making moral progress over the centuries. But it can't admit it. To admit moral progress would, at the same time, require an admission of being previously wrong. And admitting mistakes is tantamount to admitting that you can't speak for God.
The church has admitted and apologised for many misdemeanours, including its connivance in witch trials, paedophile cover-ups and the Spanish Inquisition. We also believe in the progressive development of doctrine, which St. Bonaventure wrote treatises on in the 13th century.
But it shouldn't have to apologise for something it never actually taught as doctrine.