An honest discussion about sex

[Heneni]

I firmly believe all truly honest discussions of sex surely must begin with the admission that I am the world's greatest connoisseur of fine women.

Yes ok. That settles that then.

I read on another thread that your are voluntarily abstaining because its not your thing to have a one night stand and 'meaningful relationships' puts you in a box.

I am cerenaded by younger men...less so by older men....i guess that older men and women both have some magnetism that the younger folk find appealing.

Perhaps they think we have experience...or maybe its a matter of confidence.

Maybe younger men think that if a women my age thinks they are 'hot' it means they can really perform, cause they have some experience. Or maybe women my age just seem desperate! LOL!!!


So then...all that connoisseuring that you do with fine women....what does that do for you?

 

[Jeremy Mason]

Maybe younger men think that if a women my age thinks they are 'hot' it means they can really perform, cause they have some experience. Or maybe women my age just seem desperate! LOL!!!

Or maybe the hormonal challenges that men faced in their teens and early twenties are rearing their intensity on mid-age women.

 

[Heneni]

Or maybe the hormonal challenges that men faced in their teens and early twenties are rearing their intensity on mid-age women.

They say that a women reach her sexual peak when she is in her thirties. Do you think younger men sense that?

 

[Jeremy Mason]

They say that a women reach her sexual peak when she is in her thirties. Do you think younger men sense that?

They sense something. At that age men are opportunistic in a more basic sense. Mrs. Right Now will suffice regardless of position or age. For some reason my acceptance for most women has left me in a similar situation.

 

[Heneni]

They sense something. At that age men are opportunistic in a more basic sense. Mrs. Right Now will suffice regardless of position or age. For some reason my acceptance for most women has left me in a similar situation.

Jeremy...are you saying then...god forbid...that we will take anything we can get?:cover:

 

[Jeremy Mason]

Jeremy...are you saying then...god forbid...that we will take anything we can get?:cover:

I like to look at it like we're not conceited. :flirt:

Today, I was at my friends house and it just so happened that one of his acquaintances stopped by for a few hours. I was not going to hold it against her that she was 19, a stripper and dressed to kill. Who am I to judge.

 

[Heneni]

I like to look at it like we're not conceded. :flirt:

Today, I was at my friends house and it just so happened that one of his acquaintances stopped by for a few hours. I was not going to hold it against her that she was 19, a stripper and dressed to kill. Who am I to judge.

And whatever is given on a silver platter one should not be ungrateful for.

Men are attracted to younger women for the same reason as younger men are attracted to older women. And that reason is? Hormones with a few other things in there like, money, status, security, adventure.

Im personally attracted to any man that has sex appeal. And that for every women is different.

For me...mostly its how a man carries himself. How he 'wears' himself. Whether he is in his twenties or in his fifties.

Secondly, how good is he at taming me. THAT right there is something only one person could get right so far..GOD.

And then...how he smells.

I have a theory that men who watch too much porn, suffer from impotence more than men who dont. Just because in the heat of the moment they hear lights camera and action...and then our friend doesnt want to participate in the frivolities of the night.

Maybe my theory is wrong...but if you watch too many movies, and then you have to play the main role in the main act in your own blockbuster 'movie' things can go a bit wee pear shaped.

 

[Jeremy Mason]

Secondly, how good is he at taming me. THAT right there is something only one person could get right so far..GOD.

*grabs Mystic's wipe*

I have a theory that men who watch too much porn, suffer from impotence more than men who dont. Just because in the heat of the moment they hear lights camera and action...and then our friend doesnt want to participate in the frivolities of the night.

Awww....Stage fright. One, I don't go to strip clubs or watch pornos. I have enough problems keeping my imagination in check.

Maybe my theory is wrong...but if you watch too many movies, and then you have to play the main role in the main act in your own blockbuster 'movie' things can go a bit wee pear shaped.

Sounds like a job for smilin' Bob.

 

[Heneni]

*grabs Mystic's wipe*



Awww....Stage fright. One, I don't go to strip clubs or watch pornos. I have enough problems keeping my imagination in check.



Sounds like a job for smilin' Bob.

This is indeed the honestest thread about sex so far!

Well...what about OTHER men? Do men not talk to other men about MEN problems? Come on...give us the inside scoop. How about telling us, why it is that a man cant get old willy nelson to work properly at times.

 

[stacey bo bacey]

First I would just like to acknowledge that Sunstone is the world's greatest connoisseur of fine women. NOW I can honestly talk about sex! :bounce

Not exactly like water and food no..Your not going to die without it.But if you have normal instincts and urges..and they can not or arent being met...I've seen some people turn bitter and be pretty miserable..Not beign able to have sex can affect your quality of life..it can affect your moods..it can affect your overall outlook in a negative way...Its like a part of yourself is missing..or a part of your life is not being lived. an emptiness....IMHO

Love

Dallas

:sad4: This is so true. I am such a beeotch these days.

The saddest part is I am so young! I feel like all this enthusiasm is just being horribly wasted on....well myself!

Tehehehehe.

 

[whereismynotecard]

I never have any secks, and I don't feel like anything is being wasted... maybe it is though... Maybe there's lots of great secks I could be doing, but I'm wasting it... I really don't want to do it though.

 

[Sunstone]

Do men not talk to other men about MEN problems?

Of course men talk with other men about men problems. Just the other day, my friend Nick (Mister T) told me he'd run out of beer. What could possibly be a greater man problem than that?

 

[Sunstone]

I never have any secks, and I don't feel like anything is being wasted... maybe it is though... Maybe there's lots of great secks I could be doing, but I'm wasting it... I really don't want to do it though.

According to my calculations, Hannah, you are wasting precisely 73.925 French kisses a week by refusing to have sex. That's an atrocity!

 

[whereismynotecard]

According to my calculations, Hannah, you are wasting precisely 73.925 French kisses a week by refusing to have sex. That's an atrocity!

Almost 74 french kisses per week?? Wowza...

 

[Heneni]

Of course men talk with other men about men problems. Just the other day, my friend Nick (Mister T) told me he'd run out of beer. What could possibly be a greater man problem than that?

Wouldnt a greater problem be something you can not solve?

If mister T...god bless him...needed another beer surely there are ways and means of aquiring such.

If however...men cant get...you know....IT to work...HA HA HA HA...i dont think a trip to the local pub will solve it. But im thinking....there are probably ways and means to overcome the problem. Its probably stress, and so having another beer would be good while at the same time, taking medication, but then that might just cause an even greater problem...

Well...it seems like we are never going to know WHAT the solution to the 'problem' is? Or WHAT the cause of the problem is.

I guess ill get google to 'rise' to the occasion, since there are few men here who seem to have the desire to talk about rising matters.

Its a touchy feely subject...maybe we should rather talk about why women fake orgasm.

Then NOBODY will be participating in this thread ever again.:faint:

 

[Dream Angel]

I know a great guy if you want to make girls keep the number of sexual partners low! It will put them off for LIFE!!! (which may be a problem for my future husband.....).

 

[Dream Angel]

By the way, I like the way when I went into "Who's online" everyone was looking at this thread

 

[FyreBrigidIce]

If women reach their Peak in their 30s then maybe I am not lost. lol
My husband is always joking around about not getting it enough.
Hopefully when my Peak hits all the medicine I am on doesn't counteract it. rofl

 

[ChristineES]

I am one of those few people who doesn't really enjoy sex. My first time at age 21 was a disaster and very painful . I wasn't in love with the guy (which is why I always advise people to wait until they know they are in love, at least). I did it out of "peer pressure". It is hard to be a virgin in the Navy when one is 21 years old, for some reason people think it is their business to tell everyone that "they haven't lived until they have had sex". I don't believe that now at all. Some people it is my husband's fault that I don't enjoy it, but I just don't know. Maybe I am just plain weird.

I can't believe I got this personal. How embarrassing.

 

[Dream Angel]

I am one of those few people who doesn't really enjoy sex. My first time at age 21 was a disaster and very painful . I wasn't in love with the guy (which is why I always advise people to wait until they know they are in love, at least). I did it out of "peer pressure". It is hard to be a virgin in the Navy when one is 21 years old, for some reason people think it is their business to tell everyone that "they haven't lived until they have had sex". I don't believe that now at all. Some people it is my husband's fault that I don't enjoy it, but I just don't know. Maybe I am just plain weird.

I can't believe I got this personal. How embarrassing.

Dont be embarassed! Besides most of us don't know who you really are do we??? and there is only millions of people who will prob read this!

I might as well put it my few pence and embarrass myself (or help to make you feel better ) I was 20years old, valentines day (how cheesy!), and it was crap! Didn't feel a thing, lasted for all of 2seconds and he had man boobs and a small.......