An honest discussion about sex

[tomspug]

Sex is a funny thing for me. I'm waaaaaay to curious at times (my quest for knowledge has gotten me burned a few times in the past), and the more "mysterious" or little mentioned something is the more I'll try to learn about it. Sex is no different, except that everything I head about it comes with the caveat: "You can't know it until you've had it."

What makes the whole thing funny for me is that I've bound myself to not have sex before/outside of marriage, so it's a constant battle to satisfy my curiosity without crossing that line I've set.

For me, the whole point of sex is to explore another person in the most intimate way possible. It's really not as self-satisfying as Hollywood makes it out to be (but then again, I've only had sex with my wife, so what do I know?). In my opinion, you should only have sex FOR THE PURPOSE of getting closer to someone in particular, not to slake your own lust.

 

[Heneni]

Why do some men like it when a women digs her nails into his back?

 

[DallasApple]

Why do some men like it when a women digs her nails into his back?

Im not a guy ..but maybe it hurts so good????

Or could be its a turn on because he knows shes enjoying herself???

Men want women to want them sexually...Not just be available for them because they need it..

Love

Dallas

 

[Heneni]

Do you think we need sex like we need water and food?

 

[DallasApple]

Do you think we need sex like we need water and food?

Not exactly like water and food no..Your not going to die without it.But if you have normal instincts and urges..and they can not or arent being met...I've seen some people turn bitter and be pretty miserable..Not beign able to have sex can affect your quality of life..it can affect your moods..it can affect your overall outlook in a negative way...Its like a part of yourself is missing..or a part of your life is not being lived. an emptiness....IMHO

Love

Dallas

 

[Jayhawker Soule]

You know you're getting old when there's "an honest discussion about sex" and you have nothing to add ...

 

[DallasApple]

You know you're getting old when there's "an honest discussion about sex" and you have nothing to add ...

What about wisdom from your past experiences??..That can be pricelss information ya know?

Love

Dallas

 

[Heneni]

Interesting, I've wondered whether sex was one of those basic needs we have. I have wondered what a child would grow up to be like, if they were never hugged. In the same way I wonder what effect no sex would have on an adult.

 

[Mister_T]

Why do some men like it when a women digs her nails into his back?

It let's me know that I'm doing my job right.

 

[DallasApple]

Interesting, I've wondered whether sex was one of those basic needs we have. I have wondered what a child would grow up to be like, if they were never hugged. In the same way I wonder what effect no sex would have on an adult.

Apparently for some it can cause insanity..Especially if they are in a committed relationship and they love the other person and want to be intimate with them and the other refuses chronically...its a form of torture..

Love

Dallas

 

[Father Heathen]

Why do some men like it when a women digs her nails into his back?

Because of the stimulation (endorphins from pain - the same reason some people like whips and candle wax) and a man likes feedback from what he is doing. Overall just the carnal, animalistic aspects of it.

 

[Heneni]

Hello Father!

Some people like to get really loud. Its odd when the man is louder than the girl though dont you think.

 

[tomspug]

Why do some men like it when a women digs her nails into his back?

Guys like the intensity of sex. At least, I do. I think it's really the only time that we PREFER the intensity of women's emotions. You know, like she wants to be with the guy so bad, that she needs additional outlets of expression like, say, the nail thing, being more vocal, wrapping legs around, etc.

 

[DallasApple]

Guys like the intensity of sex. At least, I do. I think it's really the only time that we PREFER the intensity of women's emotions. You know, like she wants to be with the guy so bad, that she needs additional outlets of expression like, say, the nail thing, being more vocal, wrapping legs around, etc.

Yes..my husband is always telling me to stop yelling..or stop talking so loud..

That goes in complete reverse in bed...then he wants me to "go with it and let it ALLL out dotn hold ANYTHING in"..

I told him one time he had a double standard for me..he said "its different..thats about passion"...

Well so is it when I'm excited about other things..


Love

Dallas

 

[Heneni]

Other than for medical reasons, what is the cause for the significant increase in impotence in men? I'm sure it is stress related, or is it fear of inadequate 'performace'.

 

[Charity]

Guys like the intensity of sex. At least, I do. I think it's really the only time that we PREFER the intensity of women's emotions. You know, like she wants to be with the guy so bad, that she needs additional outlets of expression like, say, the nail thing, being more vocal, wrapping legs around, etc.

OH MY ! must you get so discriptive? It's killing me, ***looks at her long nails,*** Yes, tell us more about the intensity.........OH YES intensity

 

[DallasApple]

Other than for medical reasons, what is the cause for the significant increase in impotence in men? I'm sure it is stress related, or is it fear of inadequate 'performace'.

Or could it be there is no "significant" increase after deducting medical reasons..and its more about awereness that the problem was bigger than thought in the first place?

Love

Dallas

 

[angellous_evangellous]

bigger than thought in the first place?

.......

 

[Heneni]

Has this thread died because we cant be 'honest' or because men dont want to talk about impotence?


No one is going to think you are impotent if you talk about it you know...

 

[Sunstone]

I firmly believe all truly honest discussions of sex surely must begin with the admission that I am the world's greatest connoisseur of fine women.