Well, I consider the 'supernatural' as part of the 'natural' not understood by current science,
That's ok, it is just some of those terms carry baggage that I'm not completely comfortable in handling.
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Well, I consider the 'supernatural' as part of the 'natural' not understood by current science,
Free Will is an interesting subject:But lately I have gained interest in it, and am strongly inclined to reject the existence of "free will."
First, let's define "free will." I define "free will" in a person to be the characteristic that the person has control over the choices she/he makes.
So are you thinking of something like a hidden awareness of all of your decisions made in your lifetime -- all at once?
Free Will is an interesting subject:
So, "No Free Will" is the reason that a "serial killer" keeps on killing.
If he has no control over the choices he makes, can we blame him for killing?
We obviously can't blame his parents, who created him, as they had no control either.
I see killing as extreme violence, which can only be done if there is extreme anger inside (more anger than love). In Holland we have a saying "blinded by anger", that might explain why he kills, like you said "not much conscious choice in their actions". I read "anger build up below age 4 or 7 is very hard to overcome".So, IMO, a serial killer probably doesn't have much conscious choice in their actions. They are driven by unconscious desires. However they can learn to control those desires. However it is not automatic. It is something that IMO one has to mentally train for. One can learn to control their emotions and desires. One can learn to not be a slave to their desires but it is not easy. It takes discipline. So an undisciplined mind, let's call it, may not be able to be in control of their own actions. A disciplined mind would, and therefore would be responsible for the choices they made, the actions they took.
So a serial killer may at some point choose to no longer kill, but at the time, they may not have the discipline to make that choice.
I see killing as extreme violence, which can only be done if there is extreme anger inside (more anger than love). In Holland we have a saying "blinded by anger", that might explain why he kills, like you said "not much conscious choice in their actions". I read "anger build up below age 4 or 7 is very hard to overcome".
Family life triggers lots of emotions. There is so much domestic irritation and violence. I think it would be good, to have a kind of "family coaching or education" at school. Even at young age, before kids get too damaged. Not just sex education.
Now with corona, I think lots of family dramas will flare up.
Are these the only two options or have you offered a false dichotomy?There are two options:
(1) My next choice is determined by prior causes in my genetics and environment.
(2) My next choice is not determined by prior causes, in which case it is random.
We all have to learn this type of lessons. Took me a long time, to realize that I just need to communicate if someone hurts me. If I wait too long, small things explode big time (the proverbial drop). For me it all comes down to "respect the other and don't impose on others and don't cross borders". But even now I know, I still keep getting situations and challenges. Seems like "love keeps on deepening". Good your son/girlfriend learned this young.My son and his girlfriend, both stuck at home had a flare-up. Where she ended up physically choking him. Lots of anger is possible in loving relationships. Both now angry, hurt, victims of their emotions.
I tell them that being a victim sucks. Take control of your emotions, take control of your life. Why let anger and unwanted drama prevent your happiness. Choose otherwise.
Maybe before they don't think there was an option, now maybe they think not being angry with each other is a choice they can make whenever they want.