I remember a story I read years ago on a Quaker forum: the person telling the story - a Quaker - was awoken by a noise downstairs in the middle of the night. He went downstairs and found a burglar in the middle of stealing a bunch of his stuff.Home invasion is not the same thing as breaking and entering. When criminals crash into an occupied home you are looking at rape, or murder, or kidnapping AND theft.
Instead of attacking him, he told the burglar he meant him no harm and invited him to sit down. The burglar agreed.
The homeowner put on a pot of coffee and over the next few hours, talked with the burglar to find out what had motivated him to do what he did.
Turns out the burglar was stealing to support his drug addiction, so the homeowner connected him with a rehab program. The burglar went, got clean, stayed clean, and kept in touch with the homeowner.
This seems to me to be a Christian approach to an intruder in one's home. Blowing a hole in him? Not so much.