Dear Friends,
My saying is not, ''Been There, Done That." My saying is ," Been Nowhere, Done Nothing."
No, actually, I have been somewhere where no one would ever want to go to.
Maize mentions a book, "Healing Lazarus". About someone that came back to life from the brink of death. My story is similar,although I'll admit, I have no idea what Lazarus' story is about.
To me it still seems like it was yesterday.
It all started in early 1982. I was on an over-extended break from Jr. college. I had enrolled in college after I had acquired a vocation to get by on. I was having trouble with my sophomore literature class. It was fairly interesting,but I couldn't keep up with the demands of such course. Essays here and essays there. I've never been much of a writer. They wanted me to analyze authors' writing technique and style,etc. There was no way I could even begin,so I took a much needed break. I was doing fine,vocation-wise,and I had a girlfriend. We lived only for fun--cruising, hanging out with friends at the lake, going to concerts,etc. Life was fine and dandy.
I had gone to college with the intention of getting a degree in psychology,which at the time, seemed like one of the elite professions. And also, because I wanted to be closer to the studies of parapsychology. At that time,and even now, if one talks about the hereafter or similar subjects one is looked upon almost with a frown,and even more so, if one is not a scholar.
I was very much into what was called then ,New Age. There wasn't much,but there was some. Rosicrucians, Astarians, Eckankar, Carlos Castaneda, Ruth Montgomery, Raymond Moody, and Robert Monroe(of Monroe Institute fame--astral projection states induced by electronic stimuli). I read the Bible some,although I'll admit, I wasn't nor am I still, a church-goer. I go only as a courtesy to friends' church functions(baptisms,etc.).
Anyway. I had gone up north(suburban Chicago) to visit relatives and friends. I didn't have a girlfriend anymore,so I was free to move around.
One day, while visiting a friend at his house, I glanced through the books he had on his personal bookshelf. Most of them were of the Hindu religion. One was about a certain Tibetan Lama, Tuesday Lobsang Rampa,"The Third Eye". He must have noticed my curiosity. He let me have them.
I wasn't new to the talk about the afterlife or the astral worlds or even reincarnation,so I took to them almost immediately. I very much wanted to have a spiritual guide,although not of an overly-religious nature. I had enjoyed reading about others adventures with the psychic worlds and I felt I needed to have my own. I was even trying to project my astral body. Nothing I did brought me any results.
It wasn't until I was almost done reading the copy of Bhagavad Gita(the Hindu Bible) that the author himself (the translator Indian swami) started to appear to me in my dreams. I dismissed them as 'mere' dreams until he got pretty assertive and started to make his prescence known even during my waking hours. I wasn't merely dreaming him. He was already explaining to me a lot of the concepts I had been reading about in his writings(translations into English from Sanskrit).
Before long, he was joined by the spirit of a brother I had lost back in '68(fourteen years prior to that). Although I was gladdened, I was a little shocked to find my Christian brother in the company of an Indian guru. This brother ,the oldest in the family,and the role model, had left this world almost without warning. One night,he was taken to the hospital with a fairly severe headache. He went into a coma almost within hours,and before the afternoon was over, he was gone. It was the most devastating thing to happen to our family. My dear mother almost never got over the grief. She's already 'over there', and she's finally found him,but for almost thirty years, she lived with that void. She didn't believe much about the hereafter before she experienced it for herself. She passed away in '96. I was already dealing with those two first teachers(my brother and the swami) at the time,but all that time she'd thought that I might be crazy. I never mentioned my brother to her because I was not allowed to do so( I don't know why). I would just tell her about my 'teachers'.
I'll try to post now before I loose the connection.
spectre