Ehh... There's not really much for me to contribute to the discussion.
We all have our own horrors we've had to deal with in life, but the burdens made manifest in the aftermath of a sexual assault was never mine to bear.
What I do know, though, is that everyone deals with the trauma they've had to endure in different ways. There is no proper way to deal with it; there's only the way that seems to work best for us on an individual level. That can range from talking about it in a public setting and drudging it out into the light of day for all to see, to sitting at home and quietly trying to get one's life together. There are many ways to heal.
Whatever way people deal with their trauma, I hope they do so in a way that is healthy for themselves. If it ends up being a healthy influence for others, that's good too.