For goodness sake man... get with the program. The passage from Deuteronomy can be paraphrased easily as "God requires that you love Him." What is so complicated about this? You can stop tap-dancing any time now.
Also, you couldn't be more wrong about love. Here's what you said:
You may always WANT the other to return the love, but in some cases, EVEN IF THEY DON'T - you still love them no matter what. My children fall under this category. They could literally hate me, cast insults and vitriol my way every time I saw them and I would still love them. But, apparently, God's love isn't that strong, and when you qualify your ideas with things like "If I love someone, I want to see that love reflected in the other, yes?" when talking about God, you are admitting as much. And so, with your explanations and excuses under my belt, I have no choice but to conclude that my version of love for my children is stronger than God's love, hands down. Because you know what I would never say? I would never say that I would only love my children if they loved me back. And that's basically what you are saying about God - that He makes that statement. Perhaps not directly, but that is exactly how you tried to excuse some of the passages I quoted.
In the end, you don't have anything compelling to offer. You need to understand this. It may sway some gullible people, who haven't thought it through fully, but your words are just junk. There is nothing backing them but the words of other people - and none of it is very sound or well-composed. None of it. Hence the reason I am constantly able to pick things about your words, or The Bible's words apart. There is always contradiction to be found, always logical holes and inconsistencies. Your stories are NOT STRAIGHT, and it shows. Boy does it show.