Dan Mellis
Thorsredballs
This topic came up recently where someone pointed out that those who call homosexuality a "choice" are most likely bi-sexual, where they can choose which gender they can go with for sex. For those who are not bi-sexual, the word choice doesn't have any relevant context. They have only one choice, and that is who they are inherently attracted to, whether it is the same sex, or the opposite sex. All this discussion of "choice" has no meaning to them.
A bi-sexual can choose hetrosexual or homosexual sex, depending where they are on that spectrum. Someone with little to no bi-sexuality, there is no choice.
Not if you don't have any natural inclinations towards that.
I can't imagine how someone who has no attraction to someone sexually would in fact "choose" to have gay sex. Why would they choose that, if it had no reward for themselves? Would you choose to have sex with anyone you did not find sexually attractive? I cannot fathom how or why or when that could ever happen.
Ah... the "you're going to hell if you do it" thing. These are the things people who are conflicted by their own bi-sexuality struggle with because of cultural norms which tell them it's "dirty", so they deny their own attractions to those of the same sex, repress it, suppress it, and hide it behind condemning others as a way to deny their own attractions to themselves, and others. It is fairly well-known at this point that the most vocal anti-gay people, are in fact closeted gays in denial of themselves.
Funny, but likely very true, how someone like Pat Robertson struggles with this "sin" in himself he uses God to condemn in others. It's all just a projection of his own self-condemnation.
It's all just a movie about their own inner struggles being projected onto the worldscreen for all to behold. It's all just their projects in self-denial. "Methinks the lady doth protest too loudly", as the saying goes.
Or, God is nothing like these preachers' inner demons on display to the world. Of course God looks like an evil prick in their minds. That's their own self-loathing and self-denial projected onto God. They view themselves as condemned. God on the other hand does not appear that way to those who are no so self-conflicted in these ways.
I agree with most of this except when you suggested that bi people could choose homosexuality or heterosexuality. They can't, because they're bisexual. They can chose between homosexual and hetero sex, but that isn't the same as sexuality. Am I making sense?