The Tragedy Of Transgendered Youth

[Saint Frankenstein]

No I'm not intimidated by woman in this men's restroom. In fact, while I was in Germany, there was this lady restroom attendant in the men's department store restroom. I proudly showed her how well-endowed I was. I then I asked her in German, "Lieben Sie meinen großen amerikanischen Schwanz?...

Wtf. So you're the pervert here, and you dare to project your perversity onto others?!

 

[Shad]

Cripples don't bother me, they are physically non-intimidating; hence, I don't mind whichever gender designated restroom where they choose to use a private stall sit-down toilet .

That choice isn't always made by free will but by circumstance. This shows the test is a bad one. Besides there are large stalls for handicapped men in men's restrooms (up here at least).

 

[Salvador]

Wtf. So you're the pervert here, and you dare to project your perversity onto others?!

I was kinda a jerk to her., but it wasn't my fault I was too drunk to control myself.

 

[Shad]

I was kinda a jerk to her., but it wasn't my fault I was too drunk to control myself.

You were the one that drank to excess. Still your problem.

 

[ADigitalArtist]

I was kinda a jerk to her., but it wasn't my fault I was too drunk to control myself.

There's been exactly zero cases where 'not my fault I was drunk' has flown in court. You being a dick is your own fault.

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

I was kinda a jerk to her., but it wasn't my fault I was too drunk to control myself.

I've been smashed out of my mind many times but never sexually harassed someone or exposed myself to someone during those times. So that's no excuse at all. When I had to use the women's room at the gay bar, I was smashed and had to pee. There were girls in there but I didn't expose myself to them! Alcohol doesn't turn you into a different person when drunk. You're still you, just less inhibited so you've revealed a lot about your character here.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

I was kinda a jerk to her., but it wasn't my fault I was too drunk to control myself.

It was your fault because you drank too much. That much you can control, and you didn't. You acted irresponsibly even before you "proudly" (and yet also claim it wasn't your fault, which are very typically things we are not proud of) committed a crime of a sexual nature.
So, does this explain your thoughts regarding what trans-women might do in a women's room, or your belief a guy might just identify as female for the day in order to perv in the women's restroom? Because you yourself were a perverted jerk (no "kind of" to it, especially your words following you showing her) to a woman while in a restroom?

 

[Salvador]

It was your fault because you drank too much. That much you can control, and you didn't. You acted irresponsibly even before you "proudly" (and yet also claim it wasn't your fault, which are very typically things we are not proud of) committed a crime of a sexual nature.
So, does this explain your thoughts regarding what trans-women might do in a women's room, or your belief a guy might just identify as female for the day in order to perv in the women's restroom? Because you yourself were a perverted jerk (no "kind of" to it) to a woman while in a restroom?

Well, at least I was sober enough to know which restroom where I belonged; at least I was sober enough to know which gender belongs to me and where I should be when urinating. ....

Also, I wasn't obliged to tip her; what I showed her was a pretty great tip. ....

 

[columbus]

When there's somebody standing up while he's relieving himself at a urinal, his private parts need not be examined to know he is a man.

If somebody is causing a problem that is what needs dealing with. It doesn't matter if they're smoking, panhandling, dealing drugs, hitting on people, or what. That's what needs attention.
Not somebody's genitalia.

Frankly, you feeling a need to investigate is a much bigger problem than transfolk. I prefer people who just go, do what they gotta do, and get out. Keep your eyes and opinions to yourself, if you don't mind.
Tom

 

[Saint Frankenstein]

Well, at least I was sober enough to know which restroom where I belonged; at least I was sober enough to know which gender belongs to me and where I should be when urinating. ....

Also, I wasn't obliged to tip her; what I showed her was a pretty great tip. ....

^Proof that the real danger is perverted cis people in the restroom and not trans women simply using the women's room

 

[Salvador]

There's been exactly zero cases where 'not my fault I was drunk' has flown in court. You being a dick is your own fault.

At least I was in the appropriate gender designated restroom. ...

 

[ADigitalArtist]

At least I was in the appropriate gender designated restroom. ...

I think the appropriate place for you is an outhouse.

 

[Salvador]

The issue isn't whether or not I or anyone else objects to people of one sex going into restrooms designated for the other sex, but that YOU, Salvador, feel intimidated by a woman in the men's room.

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So, you're proud of having sexually harassed a woman? No wonder you're going on about all this silly and absurd nonsense about restroom use.

Yes, I admit to having sexually harassed somebody. I shouldn't have blamed me being intoxicated. I know I was wrong. The first step in knowing I was wrong is my honesty about me having done this inappropriate sexually aggressive behavior.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

Yes, I admit to having sexually harassed somebody.

You already did that, only stating you "proudly" displayed yourself, and changing that under pressure.
And, yes, I'm skeptical. People generally don't change their minds that fast (it's rare and tends to indicate low self esteem and lack of confidence when it does happen), especially when someone is accusing them of having committed a crime (which tends to kick people into a defensive mode), and when they stated previously they are proud of that action. You barely even defended yourself.
You're either highly unusual in regards to accepting responsibility or bluffing.

 

[Shaul]

Ignorance and fear caused by a biblical belief is largely to blame. The Bible paints a rather distorted picture of the that do not follow the sexual norm.

Wait just a minute, there. There are many reasons that explain the problems trans gender or transsexual people face. Laying the blame for them on Biblical belief is a false charge.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

to know which gender belongs to me

Neither gender and no one belongs to you.

 

[Shaul]

Dude you have no clue what you’re talking about. It’s like you’re jabbering nonsensical stuff. The American Psychiatric Association a group I belong to never implies anything concerning homosexuality of transsexuality or transgenderism as a mental disorder. Get your facts straight I already contradicted one of your sources.

Not now, but in the past they did just that. Until 1973 the APA identified homosexuality as a mental disorder.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

Laying the blame for them on Biblical belief is a false charge.

Is it? So many Christians go on about what the Bible says when they justify their reasons to support discrimination and being a terrible human being (they've long done it with any group they want to oppress).

 

[Shadow Wolf]

Not now, but in the past they did just that. Until 1973 the APA identified homosexuality as a mental disorder.

And? Science is known for updating itself and changing positions when new evidence comes to light. That's how it's supposed to work.

 

[Jumi]

There are people with physical issues that can not use a urinal or choose to use the toilet as it is easier.

According to some research there are around 20 million American men who don't have physical issues, but still can't use urinals.