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I am a SJW

MysticSang'ha

Big Squishy Hugger
Premium Member
Christ, and people say *I* am the one who rants and raves about the subject. This is worse than pathetic.

Btw, I now work with a group of gamers (who are also comics). The majority are male. And they work in the gamin industry too. Funny, they think gamergate is full of **** like I feel as the "outsider".

I get criticism from my postings in dance as an authority in the field. I never receive harassment.

I write comedy and post about local city districting and the economy and appear on podcasts. I don't get harassment from it.

I write about women's issues and sexism, and suddenly I get targeted from so-called self-described egalitarians and MRA's who are up front about "exposing" my so-called "lies". I've received death threats, my family has been targeted, and in no other area has my work been such a lightning rod for people who have....and I quote...want to see me bleed to death while watching my family suffer.

If you think that everyone gets death threats online and truly believe that simple trolling is being conflated to death threats, then your assumptions are even more naive than I thought, and you're parroting what the fellas on other boards are saying. You haven't walked in my shoes or in the shoes of other female bloggers.

This also coming from a female admin of RF who has the wherewithal of reading criticism of RF and about my own contributions. I am confident that I know what I'm talking about and know what the difference is between criticism and harassment.

I call bull**** on these responses for glossing over the real problem in gamergate.
 

SomeRandom

Still learning to be wise
Staff member
Premium Member
Christ, and people say *I* am the one who rants and raves about the subject. This is worse than pathetic.

Btw, I now work with a group of gamers (who are also comics). The majority are male. And they work in the gamin industry too. Funny, they think gamergate is full of **** like I feel as the "outsider".

I get criticism from my postings in dance as an authority in the field. I never receive harassment.

I write comedy and post about local city districting and the economy and appear on podcasts. I don't get harassment from it.

I write about women's issues and sexism, and suddenly I get targeted from so-called self-described egalitarians and MRA's who are up front about "exposing" my so-called "lies". I've received death threats, my family has been targeted, and in no other area has my work been such a lightning rod for people who have....and I quote...want to see me bleed to death while watching my family suffer.

If you think that everyone gets death threats online and truly believe that simple trolling is being conflated to death threats, then your assumptions are even more naive than I thought, and you're parroting what the fellas on other boards are saying. You haven't walked in my shoes or in the shoes of other female bloggers.

This also coming from a female admin of RF who has the wherewithal of reading criticism of RF and about my own contributions. I am confident that I know what I'm talking about and know what the difference is between criticism and harassment.

I call bull**** on these responses for glossing over the real problem in gamergate.

Oh **** Gamergate, mate. That implosion of stupidity did nothing but turn the gaming Journalist circuit into a veritable circus. As if it weren't a laughing stock already. And what's more the media riled everyone up on both sides purposefully and sat back raking in the ratings, laughing all the way to the bank.

We're not talking about gamergate anyway. At least I wasn't. @Mandi didn't seem to bring it up either. I don't even know if she knows about Gamergate. For her own sanity I hope not. Twas harder to follow than Naked Lunch that ****.
This was about Anita and why legitimate criticism of her is labelled as "sexist." As it seems that that is why the anti side get frustrated. It sums up exactly why people "hate" SJWs. Because there is no meaningful dialogue. You try to offer a critique and suddenly the conversation is veered off into "oh those mean evil people called her awful names."
Yeah, that's a ****ty thing to happen. But it doesn't make the criticisms go away, apparently the people doing the legit critiques get lumped into the "online harassment" crowd somehow and seemingly all the bull**** that people call is magically swept under the rug. So in essence the "pro" side, they're not held accountable for the stuff they themselves specifically, say or do. But the "anti" side has to be held accountable not for their own actions, but for the actions of internet randoms who probably never encountered with them ever? Why?

Fine you don't want Feminism to be held accountable for the actions of people like Anita or Zoe or whoever. Even though they are very outspoken about being feminists themselves. Okay, fine. But it's alright to then turn around and demand that the "Gamergaters" or whoever the **** all be held accountable for loose canons who often don't even make it clear that they are with the movement to begin with?
Some equality there.

And yes, everyone who is a public figure gets death threats online if not troll posts. Or god forbid, they get some stalker crazy person obsessed with them.
What? Never seen that segment where a celeb reads mean tweets about themselves?

I grew up on the internet, you don't think I have seen my fair share of trolls? Of death threats? God's sake, that was merely schoolyard shenanigans when I was younger. The worst I have seen are the "Tumblrites" and the people who loudly proclaim themselves SJWs. Resorting to bullying tactics so deplorable that even average trolls would think take things too far. Not sure how Swatting became a thing, but that needs to end.

Anita. Man, this is a woman who is paid thousands and thousands of dollars to research video games (her words, not mine) and she either doesn't bother to even Google the things she positioned herself to speak about or even bother to play the games she's paid to critique. That would be like if a movie critic based their criticisms on the trailer and not the actual movie. You think if someone tried to pull such shady tactics they wouldn't be crucified in the court of public opinion? Of course they would. It wouldn't matter if they were the straightest whitest manliest straight white male that ever existed. People would take them to task for lying and failing to meet the requirements of the job they chose to do. And no one would gripe about it. But people like Anita are given a free pass and even defended for doing exactly that (and getting the public to directly fund such ventures no less) and that's somehow proof of misogyny?
Seems to me she's put on a pedestal by virtue of being a female feminist.
Hardly a poor maligned champion of human rights. Or a poor feminist blogger getting unwarranted **** for campaigning to end sexism.
 
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Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
Hate circus? Well some people only see what they want to see.
True dat.
I even count some SJWs as friends.
Do they have some dysfunctional attitudes?
Sure, but most of us do.....well, at least I do.
And my SJW friends tolerate me.
My problem is with the ones who are hostile.
 

SomeRandom

Still learning to be wise
Staff member
Premium Member
Lol where's that popcorn smiley when you need it? I'm seeing how long this Hate Circus will last.

Hate circus? Ha! You know who was a hate circus? The goddamned News. First your "Right Wing" was all up in arms that video games were murder simulators causing school shootings. Labeling anyone who liked to play games as a sociopath. Then the "Left Wing" decided to paint them all as sexist ******** after Gamergate, led by the self proclaimed feminists. (Seriously, does everything in America revolve around politics? Over here most people only grudgingly vote because they don't want to pay a fine.) Even Al Jazeera did a rather lopsided report on Brianna Wu and Gamergate. Which was......odd. I mean what the hell would Al Jazeera care? Slow week in the war torn countries they usually report on?
Even unrelated sites like I ****ing Love Science was reporting (one sided) on Gamergate. Not sure what that had to do with Science or Science Journalism but okay.

When Tim Hunt allegedly made a comment (really an off color joke at his own expense) about "sex segregated science labs" it was a veritable witch hunt led by the loudest feminist voices that I have seen in ages. All based on the word by a so called "journalist" in attendance. Milo later called her out on this appalling lack of professionalism and asked why she ignored such basic journalistic ethical standards and what does she do? Hide behind the "oh the big bad sexist people are attacking feminists again" excuse. Despicable. The woman doesn't even apologize for ruining a man's reputation or costing us a valuable ally in Cancer research. Not even remorse was shown. Just "how dare you, a man, go against me. You sexist pigdog."

When an artist who did fan art about Steven Universe on Tumblr had a lynching mob after her, it was led by so called "SJWs" who accused her of being "insensitive" towards Steven Universe. Not sure how you can be insensitive towards a cartoon, but whatever. Even the creator of SU was appalled. There was even talk that the poor kid (barely 16 I think) might have committed suicide. Though thankfully she resurfaced alive.

When Shirtgate happened, the loudest voices calling for his head were self proclaimed feminists. The poor guy was in tears sobbing an apology.

Baha Mustafa led an "open to all except white men" seminar about cultural sensitivity. When people called her out on such hypocritical and segregationist behavior she responded that "racism is power + privilege." Gag me.
She was later alleged to have made highly racially charged comments towards another student (who was a minority at her school) and allegedly bullied said student for a period of months. But she's not a racist.

These are all highly public instances (either IRL or online or both) that have pretty much damaged the reputation of the Feminist and SJW movements. As they say, there's no smoke without fire.
All of them involved people who very vocally and publicly allied with Feminism or SJWs or both. When asked why there was no pressure from the Feminist or SJW movements to call into question such actions or reign them in, the response seemed to be "Feminism is a vast movement filled with a wide variety of opinions. It is not homogeneous, there are just people like that that exist within the movement. What can we do?"
Or some variety of that response. You know what else has a wide variety of opinions, arguably much more varied than all the world's feminist movements combined? Hinduism. And even still, Hindus will go out of their way to condemn another Hindu who has publicly disgraced them. It's almost a point of honor for them.
With the SJW's? It's like they actively deny responsibility for their own actions and instead demand that the other side do the same for trolls who may or may not be attached to said movement (honestly, trolls will latch onto movements for research into a cure for Alzheimers if it means they can rile people up. So, probably not a good idea to think they support any movement whatsoever. Even if they crop up.) Even still, the most vocal of the "other side" do publicly bash sexist or harassing behavior all the freaking time.

You want me to say that "Gamergate" were full of sexist ******** that needed to be booted from the movement? Fine. They were idiotic wastes of space who the movement didn't do a good enough job weeding out. That was their ultimate downfall for which the movement needs to take responsibility for.
Like honestly, mate, throw me a bone here. What exactly do you want? Short of tracking down every ******* who took advantage of the situation to harass or otherwise demean Zoe or Anita in order to set them straight, what can I do that will make you happy? Please, tell me.

But what of these people claiming to be SJWs and/or public Feminists? Should we should not hold feminists or SJWs (or people claiming they are one or the other or both) responsible for their own actions like all grown up are supposed to do anyway?
I'm willing to grant that in all instances there were trolls and therefore the movements are not responsible for them. But in the case of Tim Hunt, there were non anonymous discussions from people who did proclaim to be feminists calling for his resignation. Particularly on I ****ing Love Science. The Journo who started that debacle did publicly debate people like Milo, a right wing journo, on a public broadcast TV show I think in the UK. (You know? Those debate type shows with an audience giving their thoughts on the matter.) And non anonymous people claiming to be Feminists supported her cowardly retorts.
It was sort of similar for Baha Mustafa. At least on YouTube (most prominent members of both sides have been doxxed ages ago, so there's little anonymity.)
Shirtgate you can successfully argue was nothing but trolls. Maybe with any Tumblr instance, though still appalling nonetheless.
I only bring this up to illustrate that the abuse the "other side" is often accused of happens almost exclusively in the realm of anonymity. Therefore it's not unreasonable to assume it's mainly random trolls not affiliated with anyone stirring up trouble as per usual.
Though again, any movement on the "other side" do need to try to reign such appalling behavior in.
With the SJWs and the Feminists, it's more so half half. Some of it happens in anonymity, meaning it's the same. Trolls not affiliated with anyone stoking the fires for the lolz. But some of it is legitimate and public. Course that doesn't necessarily mean they aren't trolling, but it's usually easier to spot who's just trying to cause trouble.
This online stuff is very hard to Police. Because trolls are literally nobodies. You can't go out and find them in order to maintain discipline within whatever movement they are a part of. You can't even definitively prove they are a part of the movement they proclaim to be "defending/serving."The best you can do is say publicly that such behavior is unwarranted. (Again many prolific members of GG or Anti Anitas have done so, numerous times.)
When it's not very anonymous and even more so when it involves "famous" people of the movement doing something publicly, it's very easy to point to the behavior and say specifically that this is caused by a person who is a part of the movement they proclaim to be a part of. I can very easily, for example, state definitively that Laughing Witch or Kevin "Potato" Logan are vocal members of the YouTube SJW community. Whether or not they are well received in that particular branch of SJW community I honestly can't say for certain. Though the loudest condemnation of their despicable behavior does seem to come from their opponents, rather than the YT SJW community themselves. Though to be fair, when Potato publicly mocked Thunderf00t for grieving over his father who died of cancer, there was a bit more dissent in his comments than usual. Even people claiming they hated Thundy seemed disgusted.

Hopefully that explains why the "other side" sees this entire debate as hypocritical and without intellectual merit on the part of their opponents. I probably only half agree with them as far as that all goes, so to speak.

If you, @MysticSang'ha are being harassed or fear for your safety, report the ******** to the Police, so that they may face accountability and justice (hopefully) for their appalling behavior. If you want to name and shame them, I would be more than happy to publicly rebuke them for doing such disgusting actions on behalf of whatever movement they claim to be a part of. I would even encourage others to do the same wherever and whenever I can.
If you think there is a precedent set that allows for these types of actions to go unpunished by the movements (MRAs, SJWs whoever) then I'd probably agree. Though I would point out that both sides are responsible for setting it. Anita gets let off the hook for everything she does wrong because the focus is on the harassment rather than the merit of her arguments, or lack thereof, by the Feminists. Therefore saying that it's okay to not take responsibility for your actions, provided you can prove you are called demeaning names from alleged sexists. I'd argue that when Milo called out Constance for her behavior, that exact precedent was one she fell back on. Among other instances.
The MRA's/Gamergaters/Anti feminists (still not 100% sure I'm very familiar with the MRA cause) would be responsible for not calling out the GGs/MRAs/AFs who crash feminist rallies/discussions to cause trouble or harass people.
 
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ShivaFan

Satyameva Jayate
Premium Member
What is a "SJW"?

Also, what is with all these acronyms? I live in a tech world and have been in IT for 38 years now, that is one world where acronyms have gone amok and there is an entire new set every 3 months while others become obscure or simply replaced with another that really is the exact same meaning. It started a long time ago, but then in the tech world it was IBM and then it went bonkers, someone reads some literature from five years ago and it is so full of acronyms that have no meaning now it is useless to read it as it has lost all meaning.

I am a Warrior Against Acronyms. I guess if you want to put three letters to it, WAA.

We now have an international forum of high IQ types, Warriors Against Acronyms World Alliance Association (or WAA WAA, but we will attack you if you use the six letters).

Please stop this, or I will warn you that you will have no future in high tech unless you learn CUDA. But you see? You probably have no idea what I am saying. Look it up, it is a language, then say the actual words.

It is TT for me.

Tea Time.
 

Mister_T

Forum Relic
Premium Member
I don't have a problem with SJW's per se, especially since I've been one myself on a number of occasions. However, I don't think there's any denying that there are fringes within these groups that are gaining traction that have some authoritarian and prejudice elements to them. I dislike those particular fringes as much as I dislike the authoritarian and prejudice fringes on the other end of the spectrum. Men, woman, black, white, brown, green...all are equal and all deserve freedom from oppression.
 

suncowiam

Well-Known Member
What is a "SJW"?

Also, what is with all these acronyms? I live in a tech world and have been in IT for 38 years now, that is one world where acronyms have gone amok and there is an entire new set every 3 months while others become obscure or simply replaced with another that really is the exact same meaning. It started a long time ago, but then in the tech world it was IBM and then it went bonkers, someone reads some literature from five years ago and it is so full of acronyms that have no meaning now it is useless to read it as it has lost all meaning.

I am a Warrior Against Acronyms. I guess if you want to put three letters to it, WAA.

We now have an international forum of high IQ types, Warriors Against Acronyms World Alliance Association (or WAA WAA, but we will attack you if you use the six letters).

Please stop this, or I will warn you that you will have no future in high tech unless you learn CUDA. But you see? You probably have no idea what I am saying. Look it up, it is a language, then say the actual words.

It is TT for me.

Tea Time.

It's weird that you mentioned CUDA as my company invented it. Who mentioned this to you that one has no future in high tech unless they learn CUDA? Just curious?
 

SomeRandom

Still learning to be wise
Staff member
Premium Member
What is a "SJW"?

Also, what is with all these acronyms? I live in a tech world and have been in IT for 38 years now, that is one world where acronyms have gone amok and there is an entire new set every 3 months while others become obscure or simply replaced with another that really is the exact same meaning. It started a long time ago, but then in the tech world it was IBM and then it went bonkers, someone reads some literature from five years ago and it is so full of acronyms that have no meaning now it is useless to read it as it has lost all meaning.

I am a Warrior Against Acronyms. I guess if you want to put three letters to it, WAA.

We now have an international forum of high IQ types, Warriors Against Acronyms World Alliance Association (or WAA WAA, but we will attack you if you use the six letters).

Please stop this, or I will warn you that you will have no future in high tech unless you learn CUDA. But you see? You probably have no idea what I am saying. Look it up, it is a language, then say the actual words.

It is TT for me.

Tea Time.
Ahh yes. GUI, DOS, UDP, TCP and on it goes. Maybe techies just wanted to create a code to talk behind people's back?
Nothing but acronyms. Certainly an interesting way to create a secret language. ;)
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
Ahh yes. GUI, DOS, UDP, TCP and on it goes. Maybe techies just wanted to create a code to talk behind people's back?
Nothing but acronyms. Certainly an interesting way to create a secret language. ;)
Acronyms without explanation should be avoided when one's audience is unfamiliar.
I find one exception....
If someone is arguing about taxation, if they don't know what GAAP means, they should search & learn.
 

SomeRandom

Still learning to be wise
Staff member
Premium Member
Acronyms without explanation should be avoided when one's audience is unfamiliar.
I find one exception....
If someone is arguing about taxation, if they don't know what GAAP means, they should search & learn.
Ahh but that's half the fun. Confusing those who are not in the inner sanctum. :p
 

Curious George

Veteran Member
What is a "SJW"?

Also, what is with all these acronyms? I live in a tech world and have been in IT for 38 years now, that is one world where acronyms have gone amok and there is an entire new set every 3 months while others become obscure or simply replaced with another that really is the exact same meaning. It started a long time ago, but then in the tech world it was IBM and then it went bonkers, someone reads some literature from five years ago and it is so full of acronyms that have no meaning now it is useless to read it as it has lost all meaning.

I am a Warrior Against Acronyms. I guess if you want to put three letters to it, WAA.

We now have an international forum of high IQ types, Warriors Against Acronyms World Alliance Association (or WAA WAA, but we will attack you if you use the six letters).

Please stop this, or I will warn you that you will have no future in high tech unless you learn CUDA. But you see? You probably have no idea what I am saying. Look it up, it is a language, then say the actual words.

It is TT for me.

Tea Time.
If you don't know the term, you are better off.
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
Ahh but that's half the fun. Confusing those who are not in the inner sanctum. :p
Some deserve to be confused.
Don't be talk'n at me 'bout taxes & accounting less'n yer fluent.
I don't be argue'n scripture without know'n me Bible initialisms.

Btw, "SJW" is an initialism, but not an acronym, which is pronounced as a word, eg, PETA.
 

SomeRandom

Still learning to be wise
Staff member
Premium Member
Some deserve to be confused.
Don't be talk'n at me 'bout taxes & accounting less'n yer fluent.
I don't be argue'n scripture without know'n me Bible initialisms.

Btw, "SJW" is an initialism, but not an acronym, which is pronounced as a word, eg, PETA.
I don't touch accounting or taxes talk. Don't understand it. Ironically Maths was my best subject at school. But I do like to use the occasional Elizabethan English to befuddle my friends. It's quite amusing.
No but DOS and GUI are acronyms.
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
I don't touch accounting or taxes talk. Don't understand it. Ironically Maths was my best subject at school. But I do like to use the occasional Elizabethan English to befuddle my friends. It's quite amusing.
No but DOS and GUI are acronyms.
Yes, they are.'
Accounting does require some basic math, but the difficulty arises in understanding reporting needs, which can be quite complex.
 

icehorse

......unaffiliated...... anti-dogmatist
Premium Member
I often hear this pejorative slung about the forums. A cute way to belittle those whose actual argument is different than one's own, when one's own falls short of any moral reasoning.

So, let's have at it. What are your gripes with me, the SJW?

I'm not easily offended, but that I am not offended doesn't mean I won't stand for justice.

Back to the OP: I tend to distrust those who would apply the SJW label to another. (I feel toughly the same about anyone who promotes the dishonest term "Islamophobia".) To me, both terms convey a denial of nuance.

That said, there certainly are some SJ folks who also become dogmatic. But that seems infrequent enough that the label SJW seems - on the whole - dishonest.
 

freethinker44

Well-Known Member
Back to the OP: I tend to distrust those who would apply the SJW label to another. (I feel toughly the same about anyone who promotes the dishonest term "Islamophobia".) To me, both terms convey a denial of nuance.

That said, there certainly are some SJ folks who also become dogmatic. But that seems infrequent enough that the label SJW seems - on the whole - dishonest.
Infrequent? I'm guessing you don't use social media often?Tumblr, Twitter, they're infested with SJWs, you must've at least seen news stories about controversies started on Twitter. SJWs were frequent enough to have caused a big shift in atheism a few years ago.

From my perspective it's pretty frequent, although I'm not part of the in-group of any groups that typically have SJW problems (not that I'm implying you are) so probably I'm less inclined to give people benefit of doubt because they're not in my in-group.
 

icehorse

......unaffiliated...... anti-dogmatist
Premium Member
Hey freethinker -

Like "Islamophobic", the term "SJW" can be used to shut down conversation. I certainly agree that some SJ types take things too far, and become dogmatic. But many do not, and the use of the term SJW, tends to shut down conversation, and extinguish the making of important distinctions. (And, fyi, I am on twitter)
 
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