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Male Rape

MysticSang'ha

MysticSang'ha

Big Squishy Hugger
Premium Member
Titanic13 said:
Alright I am starting to see the point. I am a straight 22 year old male. So when it comes to sex I am like Yes!!!!!!!! Please bear with me.
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If that is the case, then you are giving consent. Which is not rape. A woman who is aggressively coming onto you while you are giving consent is not rape. But if you are not giving consent, and she continues to touch, penetrate, or otherwise handle your genitalia, that's assault, not sex.
 
Aquitaine

Aquitaine

Well-Known Member
Kerr said:
Which is why I told my brain to shut up :p.

I live in a contradictory state where I have stereotypes that has digged themself a bit too deep into my brain without my knowledge, and where I am aware of that and knows when to not listen to myself. It can be rather... interesting... sometimes in my head, lol.
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Sadly, I too am the same, even on this topic. :sorry1:

In my mind, almost instinctively, I will always view Male-on-Female Sexual Assault as worse than Female-on-Male. I may have also been a "victim" of it once (if one considers repeated, unwanted forced snogging as a form of Sexual Assault) but I will never see that incidence as such. :shrug:
 
Titanic

Titanic

Well-Known Member
Kerr said:
Lol, yeah, I am a 25 year old man who hasnt had sex for 4-5 years, so I know how you feel :p. Still, imagine a random guy walking by you in the store, then suddenly grabbing you and shuffle a dildo up your behind. It may have been fine if he asked and you agreed, but not if he just did it without giving you a choice. Same principle applies here.
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I would never agree to something like that. I would almost be inclined to knock the guy out. Anderson Silva style.
 
DallasApple

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
MysticSang'ha said:
If that is the case, then you are giving consent. Which is not rape. A woman who is aggressively coming onto you while you are giving consent is not rape. But if you are not giving consent, and she continues to touch, penetrate, or otherwise handle your genitalia, that's assault, not sex.
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In a nutshell.:clap
 
Titanic

Titanic

Well-Known Member
MysticSang'ha said:
If that is the case, then you are giving consent. Which is not rape. A woman who is aggressively coming onto you while you are giving consent is not rape. But if you are not giving consent, and she continues to touch, penetrate, or otherwise handle your genitalia, that's assault, not sex.
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Okay I agree to that.
 
DallasApple

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
Thats why I dont agree even with the Texas law mentioned here.(no kidding) I dont think I'm "
Sexaully assaulting" my husband if I start to "do things to him" when hes asleep unless he wakes up and says "stop it" ..(and I don't mean if hes unconscious) ..the assumption is he wakes up and "agrees" ..if he doesn't the assumption is I stop.
 
DallasApple

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
It also is an "agreement" with us.He's up for it anytime ,anywhere unless of course he says no.Which has been 2 times in ....30 years.
 
Alceste

Alceste

Vagabond
DallasApple said:
Thats why I dont agree even with the Texas law mentioned here.(no kidding) I dont think I'm "
Sexaully assaulting" my husband if I start to "do things to him" when hes asleep unless he wakes up and says "stop it" ..(and I don't mean if hes unconscious) ..the assumption is he wakes up and "agrees" ..if he doesn't the assumption is I stop.
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There's a certain amount of implied consent in a sexual relationship. I mean, the assumption is generally that it's OK to engage in a little bit of surprise slap and tickle, as long as you are willing to stop if your partner isn't in the mood. You don't need to get it in writing every single time.

If he said "Dallas, I really don't like it when you start fondling me in my sleep to wake me up for sex, please don't do that", and you still did it, you'd be sexually assaulting him.
 
DallasApple

DallasApple

Depends Upon My Mood..
If he said "Dallas, I really don't like it when you start fondling me in my sleep to wake me up for sex, please don't do that", and you still did it, you'd be sexually assaulting him.
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Agreed.That's why I didn't like the way it was defined in Texas law for rape.It were true I have sexually assaulted my husband repeatedly.
 
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