Okay, I picked the second option and here's why:
At least to my understanding, atheism is a stance. One must be informed in order to have a stance on something. To say I do or do not believe this or that. If one is ignorant of a subject then they cannot possibly form a stance on it.
I don't think so. I know people who are "vegetarian", but they haven't made a "stance" about it. Meat either makes them ill due to some medical condition or they just don't like the taste of it. They are not idealogically vegetarian in the sense that they don't believe it is wrong to eat meat, but they are vegetarian in the sense that they don't practice eating meat. In a similar way, you don't have to be familiar with or formulate a stance with regards to a God-concept in order to lack a belief in that concept.
This makes it impossible for babies and small children yet uninformed of any concept of deity to be considered either atheist or theist, no matter how badly some atheists want to claim babies and small children as atheists (and lets admit it, some do do that).
I certainly would. By definition, if someone or some thing is unaware of any God concepts I see absolutely no problem at all defining them as being atheists. What's the problem with doing so? I don't think I'm trying to gain any theological ground in the name of the "atheist movement" by doing so, and I think anybody who argues such a point as "we're all born atheists" isn't really making a successful point about anything. That doesn't make it any less a statement of fact, however.
Once someone has information enough to make some decision as to whether or not they believe that a deity exists THEN they have a stance...then it is most definitely clear that theism is a belief that deity exists and atheism is a belief that deity does not exist.
But the absence of a belief does not mean you believe in the absence of something. There is a difference between "I don't believe X" and "I believe X is false". One is a reaction to position, the other is a position in and of itself.
All this playing around with "disbelief" and "lack of belief" and so on is really just playing around with semantics as to some atheists "belief" apparently takes on the quality of a "dirty word" and they want to distance themselves from it as much as possible as to disassociate themselves from theists.
That's extremely unfair and insulting. It's really far simpler than that. It's simply
what the word literally means.
At least, that's how it has always come across to me. It seems silly actually as logically, as I said, you can't honestly really claim babies and small children as atheists as they haven't got a clue.
Yes, you can.
Once that is acknowledged then it just follows that "lack of belief" is not the real factor to being an atheist.
But it's exactly what the word means.
Uh huh. Do you remember what you said to me when we first started discussing my theology? "I don't consider that a God." It doesn't matter if someone else considers something a God, only whether you do.
If I say my tea cup is God, and I can prove to you my tea cup exists, does that make you a theist?
Aha, now we're getting into the
really difficult stuff about the definition of atheist (and the definition of theist, for that matter). Would you consider an atheist to be someone who doesn't
define anything as "God", or do atheism and theism deal only with the specific definition of "God" being an all-powerful (or somewhat powerful) creative figure or force in the Universe?
For practical purposes I usually opt for the latter, but when I debate more nuanced beliefs I can tend to dip into the former definition.