Ahhh. So this is finally going somewhere, 'eh? Question is......are you still interested? Last update was that you had moved on and lost interest. hehee
Honestly I'm not as interested as I was before (thank God). I was becoming infatuated too early. I still think about her, though.
I'm not sure if it was good to ask about the staring. I hope it wasn't embarrassing or too personal of a question.
She played dumb and was like "what are you talking about?" "when did this happen?" "I don't know?" "I'm sorry did I scare you?" "Does it make you nervous?" while laughing most of the time. I told her she gave me the "stalker eye," and that I've been stalked before. When I was leaving she was like "my name here, what color was your car again?" I almost said it, but then smiled and walked away. She laughed. I'm thinking about using jokes next time, like telling her "I think I need to get a restraining order."
What's your guys' opinion on this?
Perhaps I need to be more specific...
When a hot girl knows that she is (without doubt) very, very attractive... and I mean the girls that stop traffic... she knows that guys are going to stare at her. When we don't, like for example, me, that causes many of these girls to go a little farther to get attention to reassure themselves that they indeed are quite beautiful. It happens to me all the time.
It's also because hot women are naturally turned on by a challenge. Most guys are too easy, they fall in love with them too fast because guys are weak to visual stimuli (while women are more attracted to personality indicators). When a guy falls hard, he stops being fun and interesting (analogically, it is like a beautiful woman who gains weight and stops taking care of herself. Men are turned off. It is the same for women when it comes to a man's personality). Psychologist George Miller theorized that many of our sexual orientations have gone into the brain. I would say that women look for brain indicators of good health and genes, while men look for visual indicators of fertility.
A specific (strong/secure/independent) mentality within men makes women go wild. Other (weak/insecure/needy) mentalities turn them off.
Anyways, this seemed to be the case with her ex-boyfriend. He was calling her way too much and showing up at this class all the time. Hot women are instantly attracted to the "I don't need you vibe," because it communicates that you are hard to catch, have a life, and aren't going to fall in love with them instantly when a relationship emerges. They are all about the thrill of the chase. Also, being uninterested creates a paradox that makes you to stand out from all the other men. Elusiveness and things that are paradoxical arouse our sense of curiosity. These elements naturally lure women. On the other hand, men who are always staring/approaching/helping--trying to get something out of women (i.e. manipulate the woman to like them)--are held as romantically uninteresting and placed under suspicion. Oddly, when it comes to attracting beautiful women, the opposite of what most people do works.
I've been getting LOTS of attention lately. Frankly I don't care about having a girl right now, I'm completely happy being alone. I come across as very intelligent (I know this girl likes intelligence). Also I've been working on my body language (i.e. carrying myself in a confident and masculine manner).