Alright the TLDR version then?Sorry SR, this post is way too long for me to even consider responding to it (and I can already tell a lot of it's just bloat).
In my experience when somebody starts doing this in a debate they're just trying to beat the other person into submission with words.
If you want to 'win" that badly here:
I agree that children shouldn’t be playing shooters, games have age ratings for a reason
But some games actively encourage empathy, problem solving and teamwork. Even the violent ones