Riders
Well-Known Member
It seems like every year every decade we get closer and closer to having nudity legalized LOL. More sexually you know stimulating lots of body parts hanging out tighter outfits for women.
The thing is I am very conflicted on this issue. Its like I was in a church Pentecostal church that restricted the dress code of everyone but mostly women. We had to wear our hair long and we either teased it up on top or braided it wore it a bun whatever but it had to be long.
No jewelry was allowed no makeup although some churches did allow foundation and powder to be warn, no slacks although some churches allowed us to wear leggings or gouchos something like that skorts.
But it was legalistic repressive almost abusive.So I am all for us ladies to have all the freedom tow ear what we want. As long as we are comfortable. But is there any moral thing we should wear our clothes any certain way at all?
Sometimes I see women who are dressed very provocative and I think hmm she is assertive confident and holds herself well. But at other times and I pointing the finger here directly at me too. I have done this in the past, at other times i have seem some women who do not positive and assertive maybe the opposite like her sexuality comes from a negative place a way to get negative attention from men power women.
But its really not for me to judge.
But like I heard at a 12 step meeting the other day this guy was saying he was trying not to sexually objectify women anymore but he was sitting in a car with a friend who was stopped at a stop sign or maybe they were in a parkinlot somewhere where they were watching people watch buy and a bunch of different women walked by and the other guy was like saying every other minute something to the effect of:
WHOA look at that did you see that babe whoa babe! I am just wondering after all this time Gloria Stinemn women's rights rights and after all these years are we really coming up and being more affirmative for women's rights or has our sexually explicit clothes become anther way of us going back to becoming sex slaves to men like we were in the 60s?
Is the more revealing clothes for women more positive for our self esteem or it taking us back to the 50s? Sex slaves for men.
Part of me wants to say you know why is it that I cant sit there sit in a car going whoa look at that lookign at male hotties but theres way less male hotties around because too many men still think smoking and weighing in at 40 pounds is fine for that man but the women needs to be a fashion model?
The thing is I am very conflicted on this issue. Its like I was in a church Pentecostal church that restricted the dress code of everyone but mostly women. We had to wear our hair long and we either teased it up on top or braided it wore it a bun whatever but it had to be long.
No jewelry was allowed no makeup although some churches did allow foundation and powder to be warn, no slacks although some churches allowed us to wear leggings or gouchos something like that skorts.
But it was legalistic repressive almost abusive.So I am all for us ladies to have all the freedom tow ear what we want. As long as we are comfortable. But is there any moral thing we should wear our clothes any certain way at all?
Sometimes I see women who are dressed very provocative and I think hmm she is assertive confident and holds herself well. But at other times and I pointing the finger here directly at me too. I have done this in the past, at other times i have seem some women who do not positive and assertive maybe the opposite like her sexuality comes from a negative place a way to get negative attention from men power women.
But its really not for me to judge.
But like I heard at a 12 step meeting the other day this guy was saying he was trying not to sexually objectify women anymore but he was sitting in a car with a friend who was stopped at a stop sign or maybe they were in a parkinlot somewhere where they were watching people watch buy and a bunch of different women walked by and the other guy was like saying every other minute something to the effect of:
WHOA look at that did you see that babe whoa babe! I am just wondering after all this time Gloria Stinemn women's rights rights and after all these years are we really coming up and being more affirmative for women's rights or has our sexually explicit clothes become anther way of us going back to becoming sex slaves to men like we were in the 60s?
Is the more revealing clothes for women more positive for our self esteem or it taking us back to the 50s? Sex slaves for men.
Part of me wants to say you know why is it that I cant sit there sit in a car going whoa look at that lookign at male hotties but theres way less male hotties around because too many men still think smoking and weighing in at 40 pounds is fine for that man but the women needs to be a fashion model?