Mercy Not Sacrifice
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What it boils down to is, you believe it takes a village to raise a child while many of us want to do the job ourselves.
Because some folks have abandoned their parental responsibilities, the state wants to take over as custodial parent and remove the responsibility from the responsible parents as well.
Well, it *does* take a village to raise a child! Don't believe me? Then try raising them in a world with no churches, police, government, parks, hospitals, schools, amusement parks, and all those other institutions that play some role in developing our young!
There's nothing wrong with parents having rightful control over their kids, so long as they don't do something horrible such as abusing or molesting them. But what on earth is so bad about some parents' asking for a helping hand? Are we so stubbornly individualistic as a society, that to fail at parenting is a lesser crime than to ask for help in parenting? Is it not ironically childish for someone in need of a hand to slap that hand away?
Anyway, PureX said it quite well:
The state doesn't WANT to do anything of the sort. It is, however, obliged to do it when parents neglect their obligations as parents. I can't think of a single example where the state wanted to take over parental responsibilities when the parents were fulfilling them, already.