I'm not missing the point, I'm rejecting it. You cannot observe behaviour in any meaningful way. You can observe actions, but you can only know what the person is doing when you are told. That's why many philosophers have dismissed "social science" as pseudoscience.
Of course, when asked what they are doing, people NEVER lie, do they?
Even when told what people are doing, you cannot be sure what they say is really what they are doing. You can of course assume...
And many philosophers have not rejected social science as pseudoscience. So?
The natural science, including physics, chemistry, etc., got their start the same way social science works: observing the world in action, noticing and measuring patterns, and running experiments to try to understand what is going on. The people who study people--pseudoscientists, according to your terminology
--long ago noticed that asking people about what they are doing or thinking or feeling or perceiving, etc., is often not the best way to find out or understand what they are really doing. People behave, and we can observe it (of course you find it meaningless to do so
). We impute motives and intent. We can ask, be we cannot rely on the questioned individual to give a true or meaningful answer--they may, but they may also choose not to--not to respond at all, not to respond truthfully--and indeed, they may not know for certain why they are doing certain things. But asking alone tells you nothing reliable.
[/QUOTE]They may indeed be doing any of the things you mention, but they are not worshiping. To use a less contentious example, I may, when interviewing someone, take notes or I may, for some reason, pretend to take notes. Pretending to take notes is not engaging in "note taking behaviour": it's pretending to take notes.[/QUOTE]
So, I observe you appearing to take notes. Afterwards, I ask you if you were taking notes. You say yes. So as far as I know, you were taking notes, because it appeared you were, and you confirmed it. But you pretended and then you lied about it. The only way I can know if you actually took notes is to ask to see them: if you refuse, I may suspect you of attempting to hide that you didn't take notes, if you show me the doodles you made instead of notes, then I know that you did not take notes, and that you lied.
We don't have any equivalent check for whether someone is worshiping or pretending to worship. Observationally the two are indistinguishable. We can ask, of course, and some people may answer truthfully, but others may lie. Okay, I'll go with YOUR interpretation of worship: some are really worshiping, others are pretending to worship, making it LOOK like they are worshiping, but they aren't.
Certainly, no one would worship something they don't believe in; but they may pretend to worship for a variety of reasons, and may never admit to anyone that they are pretending, and then lying about it. So if asked, they would be counted among the worshipers. But they were only pretending. To anyone outside of their mind, they would think they were worshiping.
What's the point of all this? That at least some people find the definitions of theism based in how many gods a person believes in to be a less-than-useful distinction. Sure, that's the dictionary definition, but those definitions do not reflect the reality of belief for many people. Those definitions were created by people who think in terms of Western Judeo-Christian Monotheism, and maybe atheism, not any of the other theisms. For many people, the Judeo-Christian universal all-powerful all-knowing God is a deity of a very different sort than what most "polytheists" believe in and worship, and the definitions of these Western terms just don't fit.
I am arguing here that a better alternative definition might be based in the actual practices people engage in--whether they believe or not is irrelevant (just as whether they actually worship is irrelevant to the definition based on belief). Yet another alternative definition, requiring creation of additional terms, could be constructed that includes both belief and practice. Or maybe we need some entirely new terms to describe people's beliefs and practices regarding deity/ies, based on something other than belief or practice.