This isn't intended as debate but I've been thinking a lot about this lately. A lot of the reason it's been on my mind is all the messed up stuff in my own family, and it's kind of getting to me and I feel insane not knowing what the expectations are supposed to be. It seems to me that in American society, we value our family a lot less than in other cultures. On the flip side, we make less unreasonable demands and allow more freedoms to form their own identities not dictated by the elders of said family.
But how much of that trade off is worth it? And what do I owe my family and what do I owe them? In America and many other places it seems we forget our elderly, and we ignore our disabled like they are a disease and we shun those we are too embarrassed to call family. This is for the same reason that there is less demands and more freedom... we don't care. We stopped seeing each other as family.
What is it like in your family and society? What are you expected to do for others and what are they expected to do for you? What happens when these expectations are not met? How do expectations change over time or situation for you and your society or family?
But how much of that trade off is worth it? And what do I owe my family and what do I owe them? In America and many other places it seems we forget our elderly, and we ignore our disabled like they are a disease and we shun those we are too embarrassed to call family. This is for the same reason that there is less demands and more freedom... we don't care. We stopped seeing each other as family.
What is it like in your family and society? What are you expected to do for others and what are they expected to do for you? What happens when these expectations are not met? How do expectations change over time or situation for you and your society or family?
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