Do you think most people wear a happy mask to conceal what's missing in their life,
even from their own self?
Do you think people (on the whole) literally create their own happiness(es)?
Or do some people just "get lucky" in life's happy "ideal" game of chance?
Is there a difference between creating true happiness, and false happiness?
Can happiness truly be created at all?
Or is it more a simple state of being thing?.....
that has little to do with "what you (actually) make" of your life situations.
Is happiness concrete? What you make (of) it? or is it all illusory?
Many people cover up their unhappiness, yet deep down they are still unhappy.
They say they are full, they are happy, they play the part daily,
and cling to an image of themself that is nothing more than an image.
Certainly one cannot transform what one will not even admit.
But once you can allow yourself to feel what's missing in you/your life,
and face that honestly, even to the point of embracing the pain of it.......
what then?
How does one effectively... How do YOU effectively... transform your saddnesses,
your disapointments, your hurts, your emptiness, loneliness, your lack of self worth...
so that they TRULY are no longer the painful things they were?
When you can't easily change your situation, how do you go about changing yourself, your thinking,
in order to give yourself a newly realized version/vision of your reality.
Masks are a dime a dozen. True transformation is an art form.
How can we help one another to "throw out our happy masks"?
What can we do to make it easier for one another?
I tend to believe that happiness has mostly to do with "what we (actually) make" of our life situations.
How we review, rework, and begin changing them... in thought, word, symbolism, and action.
It can be such a difficult process though. It helps so very much when those around us love and accept us for who we are.
Even, and especially when we are down. It's so affirming to know that the people around you WANT you to be the REAL you.
Not some perfect image of some perfect happy thing. (or some prescribed mold an-"other" wants you to fit/fill/con-form to.)
But then again, my most transcendently happy times have had me lifted far higher than ANY of my circumstances,
to the point that my circumstances had absolutely no bearing on the peace and happiness within me.
That would be life lived "in the zone". If that's what it's really all about, how does one find/re-find the all transcendent "happiness zone"?
Thank you for sharing from your own personal experience and insight,
*Nixxie*
even from their own self?
Do you think people (on the whole) literally create their own happiness(es)?
Or do some people just "get lucky" in life's happy "ideal" game of chance?
Is there a difference between creating true happiness, and false happiness?
Can happiness truly be created at all?
Or is it more a simple state of being thing?.....
that has little to do with "what you (actually) make" of your life situations.
Is happiness concrete? What you make (of) it? or is it all illusory?
Many people cover up their unhappiness, yet deep down they are still unhappy.
They say they are full, they are happy, they play the part daily,
and cling to an image of themself that is nothing more than an image.
Certainly one cannot transform what one will not even admit.
But once you can allow yourself to feel what's missing in you/your life,
and face that honestly, even to the point of embracing the pain of it.......
what then?
How does one effectively... How do YOU effectively... transform your saddnesses,
your disapointments, your hurts, your emptiness, loneliness, your lack of self worth...
so that they TRULY are no longer the painful things they were?
When you can't easily change your situation, how do you go about changing yourself, your thinking,
in order to give yourself a newly realized version/vision of your reality.
Masks are a dime a dozen. True transformation is an art form.
How can we help one another to "throw out our happy masks"?
What can we do to make it easier for one another?
I tend to believe that happiness has mostly to do with "what we (actually) make" of our life situations.
How we review, rework, and begin changing them... in thought, word, symbolism, and action.
It can be such a difficult process though. It helps so very much when those around us love and accept us for who we are.
Even, and especially when we are down. It's so affirming to know that the people around you WANT you to be the REAL you.
Not some perfect image of some perfect happy thing. (or some prescribed mold an-"other" wants you to fit/fill/con-form to.)
But then again, my most transcendently happy times have had me lifted far higher than ANY of my circumstances,
to the point that my circumstances had absolutely no bearing on the peace and happiness within me.
That would be life lived "in the zone". If that's what it's really all about, how does one find/re-find the all transcendent "happiness zone"?
Thank you for sharing from your own personal experience and insight,
*Nixxie*