Please allow me to double back.
I do find that human to human relationships can be complicated and they can be either kind or unkind, and THAT makes all the difference. I have learned to recognize unkind people and minimize my contact with them when possible, and gravitate towards kind people when they come around. Kindness make ALL the difference especially when one is going through a difficult time. I try to be kind to everyone, as that is a very important Baha'i teaching. If I cannot be kind owing to my own sordid state of mind, I keep to myself so I will not hurt anyone.
1: O SON OF SPIRIT!
My first counsel is this: Possess a pure, kindly and radiant heart, that thine may be a sovereignty ancient, imperishable and everlasting.
The Hidden Words of Bahá’u’lláh, p. 3
I am very open-minded, which is why I sometimes why I disagree with Baha'is and question the way they interpret the Baha'i Writings.
I do not think it has to be "two beliefs against each other." I am sure, and I have even heard, other Baha'is say they had conversations with God, and the fact that you believe in 'gods' is no reason to say your experience was invalid. People understand God(s)in many different ways.
I would never question you if you say you have had conversations with gods, because I am not YOU so I do not know what YOU experienced. I consider questioning another person's experiences just because of how "I" interpret some scriptures to be egotistical.
I will also say this: At the end of the day, people can always let us down, but I believe that God will never let us down. What form that takes varies. It might be some assistance from God through other people or it might just be knowing that whatever happens is God's will and is for the best.
You might wonder why I am saying this given some not-so-nice things I sometimes say about God, but as my bff @Truthseeker knows only too well , I am a very complicated person so things are not always black and white for me as with many believers -- I question everything!. It would sure be easier to just "believe" unquestionably like many Baha'is and Christians do, but that is not how my mind works.
There is no point in discussing another person's opinion if it is the same opinion as yours.
Not even twins are identical. Our memories make different paths through our brains, so our experiences are slightly different. As a result, our thinking is slightly different. Some get angry at the differences. Others try to understand, while still others try to bend others to their wills.