As usual, you are reluctant to take in the perspective of someone who knows the Evangelical mindset. .
I grew up in the cult known as "Assembly's Of God". A more depraved cult you cannot find in America that isn't a simple Cult Of One Personality.
These people believe in literal magic, and can be seen jerking around under it's influence (they never call it dancing, which is a horrific sin worse, by far, than murder... and in that cult? Rape never happens, the woman is *always* the only one guilty, because boys will be boys).
Horrible, horrible people, really.
BUT. And it's not even a big but-- these people are a
Minority Report. They only represent a small (but vocal) fraction of Christianity.
Good for Secularism. Bad for Christianity, though-- they paint with a larger brush than they represent.
I do remember as a child, whenever encountering non AG Christians?
My cult was always looked down on, as 'weird' and 'quirky'. The best was 'quaint'. In truth?
Bat-sh-- Crazy is too kind...