Aup,
This must be related to the picture I shared on the Pushpabhishekam thread which happened to be Nithyananda in this case but the picture was only for the purpose of informing those who might be unfamiliar that this bathing with flower petals is not only done to Murtis and such, but also to People and Savants and Gurus etc. and it is common practice in India.
The petals are also poured onto the feet in some cases, and there are many other forms of Abhishekam including using gold coins which I would not recommend your pour over the head of a King or a relative or a Guru or anybody if too many coins as the person might end up in a hospital but flower petals are always nice.
The picture was not meant to be an endorsement of Nityananda. I found the picture as a good example.
Yes, I have been to the Vedic Temple in Milpitas off and on because I go to any temple which has nice Murtis and I have to say the Devi at this temple is very beautiful indeed. But I am not a member of his sect. Yes I am aware of his philandering with this Bollywood girl. While not good, I am able to forgive sometimes as well. As far as I know, he never molested a child, that is the limit for me and that I do not nor will forgive.
I can tell truths about some, several, famous Gurus. I won't. They made a fall down, but still they had the goodness of heart and the knowledge returned to them. Some say "Oh Guru MUST be PURE". Well, some were not sometimes. But I still respect them for what they were, then how they came back again. Some Guru's are above us humans. Some are not. When they fall down but come back, I do not hate them if they slept with a prostitute. They may not be "the pure Guru" but I see the human in them and I think, still a good human.
There may be some so-called Gurus who might we hate for reason. Some went power hungry. Perhaps they needed to be shamed but then took the shame, and then step forward and continued the human life and for goodness. I think, I could NEVER take such a responsibility.
One example. I knew one Guru. Why say his name? He was unbelievable in intelligence and in delivery and in knowledge of what is pertinent from the past to the present. He became known to many. He became even more dedicated as fame arose. Yet, then something happened. He started to become paranoid. Yes. Then came the guns. This Guru ended up in jail. Seriously. When he came out of jail, he went back to what he was. His messages were even more powerful than before. Yes, he fell down. Failed. But that is life and death. But he didn't molest any child. I was not his follower, never mind that, he had lost all his disciples. Yet today, they remember the past, and now others see again that quality of his soul. When he goes to the temple, he again gets greetings and great respect. Forgiven.