PoetPhilosopher
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Love is simple.
That's what I believe, even though there are many forms of love that make things look complex. There is romantic love, platonic love, familial love, self-love, and more.
But sometimes, I feel that people overcomplicate love. They set unrealistic expectations, they play games, they doubt themselves and others, they fear rejection or commitment, and they lose sight of whatever might matter. They forget that love can be simple.
Love is a feeling, a connection, and/or a bond. It's not something that can easily be measured or quantified. It's not something that should be forced or manipulated. It's not something that can necessarily be defined easily by rules or labels.
Love is simple, but it's also powerful. It can inspire us, motivate us, heal and transform people, etc. It can make us do things we never thought possible. It can make us feel things we never thought we could feel.
And maybe, the initiation of love is based on instinct (and thus simple in that way too). Maybe we are wired to seek love, to give love, and to receive love. Maybe we are drawn to certain people because of some primal attraction, some innate compatibility, some mysterious chemistry. Maybe we don't need to overthink it or overanalyze it. Maybe we just need to follow our hearts and trust our guts. But that requires vulnerability. And vulnerability requires emotional strength and emotional endurance.
Love in its purest form is simple. And that's one of the things that makes it so beautiful.
So, as I told @dybmh , love can be simple, but not easy.
The idea that love is complex often comes with adding baggage to it.
However, as was suggested to me, there is some necessity to control it in some situations.
This may involve tempering it with rationality, etc.
I agree, though, after more reflection - that love can also be potent. It can be a firework.
That's what I believe, even though there are many forms of love that make things look complex. There is romantic love, platonic love, familial love, self-love, and more.
But sometimes, I feel that people overcomplicate love. They set unrealistic expectations, they play games, they doubt themselves and others, they fear rejection or commitment, and they lose sight of whatever might matter. They forget that love can be simple.
Love is a feeling, a connection, and/or a bond. It's not something that can easily be measured or quantified. It's not something that should be forced or manipulated. It's not something that can necessarily be defined easily by rules or labels.
Love is simple, but it's also powerful. It can inspire us, motivate us, heal and transform people, etc. It can make us do things we never thought possible. It can make us feel things we never thought we could feel.
And maybe, the initiation of love is based on instinct (and thus simple in that way too). Maybe we are wired to seek love, to give love, and to receive love. Maybe we are drawn to certain people because of some primal attraction, some innate compatibility, some mysterious chemistry. Maybe we don't need to overthink it or overanalyze it. Maybe we just need to follow our hearts and trust our guts. But that requires vulnerability. And vulnerability requires emotional strength and emotional endurance.
Love in its purest form is simple. And that's one of the things that makes it so beautiful.
So, as I told @dybmh , love can be simple, but not easy.
The idea that love is complex often comes with adding baggage to it.
However, as was suggested to me, there is some necessity to control it in some situations.
This may involve tempering it with rationality, etc.
I agree, though, after more reflection - that love can also be potent. It can be a firework.
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