Gnomon... I am actually agreeing with you completely. Sex and Love are two separate things. What some of the people on this forum are failing to recognize is that a homosexual is more than just someone with a physical, sexual attraction to someone of the same gender, they also have the same capacity to feel Love of the same gender. They are capable of the same deep and loving relationships that heterosexual couples have, not just the love one has of a good friend or family member. I know of several homosexual couples who are in deeply loving and caring relationship, but choose to abstain from sex because of their religious convictions, and their relationship is no less valid than any other loving couple. I just feel that many people get so hung up on the sex side of a relationship... and this is true regardless of the genders involved... that they completely miss the emotional and spiritual side.
fromtheheart... I am happy you have experienced pure love for your friends, and that is wonderful. I am also happy that hasn't let you to sleep with all of them, as I do not believe in promiscuity. I am saying that when a homosexual couple fall in love, they experience the same love as a heterosexual couple. Think about when you were a child. Do you remember having a crush for a little boy on the play ground? A homosexual experiences the same thing, but directed at the same gender. You may not have fallen in love yet (I certainly hope you do at some point!
), but when you do, it is the exact same thing a homosexual feels. I am not saying that romantic love is devoid of the desire for sex, it is simply not the focal point, if that love is to last.