It is easier for me to criticize what someone else believes than justify a belief. So I've gotten to the point of criticizing all beliefs, even my own.
Why Criticism Doesn't Work
At no time in this downward spiral does an obvious fact occur to critical people: Criticism is an utter failure at getting positive behavior change. Any short-term gain you might get from it builds resentment down the line.
Criticism fails because it embodies two of the things that human beings hate the most:
Why We Criticize Anyway
Critical people are certainly smart enough to figure out that criticism doesn’t work. So why do they keep doing it, even in the face of mounting frustration? It's because criticism is an easy form of ego defense. We don’t criticize because we disagree with a behavior or an attitude. We criticize because we somehow feel devalued by the behavior or attitude. Critical people tend to be easily insulted and especially in need of ego defense.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/201404/whats-wrong-criticism
How much of this is true or really how does it apply to people who post criticisms of other people's beliefs?
Is there an exception to this? Is there more to criticism (of religious belief) than the need to feed one's own ego?
Why Criticism Doesn't Work
At no time in this downward spiral does an obvious fact occur to critical people: Criticism is an utter failure at getting positive behavior change. Any short-term gain you might get from it builds resentment down the line.
Criticism fails because it embodies two of the things that human beings hate the most:
- It calls for submission, and we hate to submit.
- It devalues, and we hate to feel devalued.
Why We Criticize Anyway
Critical people are certainly smart enough to figure out that criticism doesn’t work. So why do they keep doing it, even in the face of mounting frustration? It's because criticism is an easy form of ego defense. We don’t criticize because we disagree with a behavior or an attitude. We criticize because we somehow feel devalued by the behavior or attitude. Critical people tend to be easily insulted and especially in need of ego defense.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/201404/whats-wrong-criticism
How much of this is true or really how does it apply to people who post criticisms of other people's beliefs?
Is there an exception to this? Is there more to criticism (of religious belief) than the need to feed one's own ego?