To come back to the topic:
For me an other argument why I don’t believe in heaven and hell as the only two possibilities after death is that I don’t believe in condemnation. As I wrote earlier a place of “Hell” is been explained as a place far from God. But how can we be far from the omnipresent? This is not possible. Someone who believes is a hell limits God by this believe. Of course we can create a hell. We do it daily on our planet. But this hell is based on the illusion, we are far from God. We can create hell just with this illusion. God doesn’t have illusions, so God didn’t create a hell. As soon as we overcome this illusion, the experience of hell will vanish. So also God doesn’t sent us to hell, we do it. And God doesn’t force us to stay there, we do as long as we want.
But that also means (at least I think that) new chances are always been given.
May be also we can develop at the other side.
What do you think?