I have just returned from taking my dog for a walk; while I was in the park, I saw a couple of 'youngish?' teenagers (boys) smoking, sitting on a low branch of a big tree. Jessie (myd dog) is a people lover - her 'hello' to humans is to run up to them, lie on her back and ask for her tummy to be rubbed. I wasn't sure about the two guys, and Jessie started going to them; I even said to her 'go and say hello'. Half way there, she turned away from them, and came straight back to me.
Ever sinse I was in that park a year or so ago, and was attacked by a couple of young boys (Nothing too bad, they tried to steal my mini-disc player and headphones) who could see I was disabled, I am much more 'aware' than I used to be.
Today, I left the place where the two guys were, and went on back (with the odd glance behind me). They didn't follow me. Coming out of the park, I saw a young woman taking her dog for a walk; we said 'hi', but when I saw her taking my path I called after her. She ignored me twice - I am sure she could hear me, but she turned round the third time, and I warned her about the guys in the woods - she thanked me and went on.
The base line is, I was suspicious of the two guys - is that wrong ?
she was (I think) suspicious of my motives in calling her back - I don't blame her in the least.
For all I know, the two guys might have been angelic young men.
I think I was right to think what I did, I think the girl was right to be wary of me. But isn't it a shame ? so much negativety and distrust. What do you think ? How would you have dealt with the situation had you been in my shoes - on crutches?
Ever sinse I was in that park a year or so ago, and was attacked by a couple of young boys (Nothing too bad, they tried to steal my mini-disc player and headphones) who could see I was disabled, I am much more 'aware' than I used to be.
Today, I left the place where the two guys were, and went on back (with the odd glance behind me). They didn't follow me. Coming out of the park, I saw a young woman taking her dog for a walk; we said 'hi', but when I saw her taking my path I called after her. She ignored me twice - I am sure she could hear me, but she turned round the third time, and I warned her about the guys in the woods - she thanked me and went on.
The base line is, I was suspicious of the two guys - is that wrong ?
she was (I think) suspicious of my motives in calling her back - I don't blame her in the least.
For all I know, the two guys might have been angelic young men.
I think I was right to think what I did, I think the girl was right to be wary of me. But isn't it a shame ? so much negativety and distrust. What do you think ? How would you have dealt with the situation had you been in my shoes - on crutches?