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According to Srila Sridhar Maharaj's teachings, marriage is part of karma-kanda and also part of the Four Goals of Material Life. Marriage is only a material designation to help one practice the Krishna conception; otherwise, it has nothing to do with pure, uncalculated devotion to the Sweet Absolute.
"We need society only to help us. If our affinity to the society keeps us down, then that should be given up, and we must march on. There is the absolute consideration and the relative consideration. When they come into clash, the relative must be given up, and the absolute should be accepted. If my inner voice, my spiritual conscience decides that this sort of company cannot really help me, then I will be under painful necessity to give them up, and to run towards my destination, wherever my spiritual conscience guides me. Any other course will be hypocrisy, and it will check my real progress. If we are sincere in our attempt, then no one in the world can check us or deceive us; we can only deceive ourselves (na hi kalyana-krt kascid durgatim tata gacchati) [Bg. 6.40]. We must be true to our own selves, and true to the Supreme Lord. We must be sincere."
-- Srila Sridhar Maharaj
Only Krishna is the Absolute Judge. Let him deal with the 'homosexuals' and you can focus on your own bhakti.
I do not know much about religion, save that it is sarva dharman parityajya, mam ekam sharanam vraja...That is the essence. What can repression accomplish? (Gita 3.33). Maybe it's the way that other gurukulis live their lives, but I would rather live my life in integrity with those who are helping others live God-conscious lives than participating in prajalpa and idle talk amongst other devotees.
Krishna can do whatever He wants. Rakhe Krishna mare ke, Mare Krishna rakhe ke. He could even utilise non-devotees for His purpose, and His names are an infinitude of Names, and not necessarily Krishna, or Govinda.
I just try to take the good, reject the bad, see the Lord as my Master, seek His protection, try to be humble, and surrender everything unto Him. (Six Limbs of Loving Devotion unto the Lord)
I keep it simple. And whatever that Beautiful Absolute desires to do with me, let Him do. :shout
Vrindavana Das,
Why is it so important to you that you convince people that being gay is not accepted in Hinduism?
Maya
For the simple reason that it is the truth.
Is it okay for me to call a woman a 'prostitute' because I have lust in my eyes?
If I am lusty and cannot give up homosexuality, that does not mean we should say religion accepts homosexuality. It is incorrect.
Religion does not exist for us. Religion exists for God. What gives us the right to exploit religion like a prostitute for our insatiable lust and homosexual tendencies?
For the simple reason that it is the truth.
Religion does not exist for us. Religion exists for God. What gives us the right to exploit religion like a prostitute for our insatiable lust and homosexual tendencies?
It is about reviving our eternal relationship with the eternal Supreme Lord. .... Human life is very rare and precious. We should not waste it following a fake religion which is nothing but mental speculation.
This is only hearsay and not scientific, as per your own words. Why should I believe it in the absence any proof?
Isn't that what the Bhagavata Purana said? (I don't have my copy on me to check at the moment.)Also, please advise where did I say Bhakti is the only path?
LOL! Where is it said? Please quote. Please explain Bhakti and how is it the easiest?
Those don't compose the entire religion, and I don't in any way believe in the "all-or-nothing" approach to religion.Maybe Bhagavad Gītā, Rāmāyāna, Mahābhārata, Kurukshetra and many others are just fiction. Am I suppose to believe that you are right and a whole religion is wrong!
I don't think you really understand how science works. It has improved over the centuries, not degraded.Because we lack the qualification to follow the rules, that does not make spirituality a lesser science. It is the origin of science even in Vedic civilization and Churches of the west. How can the source be inferior to the emanation? What you are suggesting is not rational.
It takes knowledge of the periodic table to properly manipulate the elements. They are forever connected.Why is learning the periodic table a requirement for advancing in chemical engineering discipline?
But how do we even know that this "spiritual field" even exists?We have improved our knowledge in material field, so we have got material knowledge. If we improve our consciousness in the spiritual field, we will get spiritual knowledge. Something like...first deserve and then desire.
Doubt is not the same as disbelief. Disbelieving is making a firm statement; doubt is questioning, and is the beginning of inquiry.Evidence should not be disbelieved. It should be question. Spirit of one (disbelieving) is rejecting; and the other (questioning) is 'understanding'. You are rejecting everything even before going to any rational level. So, why should I take anything you are saying as an evidence which should be believed? Wonder why I am getting the feeling that this is a 'time-pass' than a discussion.
You're a dualist; I'm not. Why? We've interpreted the Scriptures differently; that's why, in your eyes, I am not God, but in my eyes, you are still my Lord Siva trying to teach me a lesson. Why would the servant teach the master?Are you saying that spiritual science is like the 'trick' of a magician? Read the book - The journey home. Autobiography of an American Swami. And if you want to believe something that you see or want to believe...I am not God; and God is not your servant.
Why is the information you've pointed to worthy of being taken seriously?You believe or you don't. It makes no difference either ways. If you want to know, I have pointed to the information. If you don't want to know, you can choose to ignore.
All forms of medicine have side effects; the vast majority of modern medicine is is just the completely distilled and purified good qualities of the same medicines use throughout history, but without the extra baggage that was there before.I also said the same thing. I said 'imbalance' and you say 'effects'. As for the modern medicines, they have a side effect. Also, they do not cure the disease from the root. Ayurveda does not have side effects. It is natural. Also, it cures the disease from it's root.
I take it you've done that with all 18 Puranas?Puranas are in Sanskrit. You can take a word-to-word, do a literal translation, and understand their import. Then you can decide if the interpretations are correct of not.
Kali is this material world; she is Shakti. She is all Timespace. It's beyond Her that is Siva, the Eternally Unmoving. That is Spirit.If in the scripture you believe, you find that Kali is Supreme, it would be in the material world. Not in the spiritual world.
Inquiry is the next step from doubting. It's not focusing on the negative aspects; all it is is simply saying "Is that really so?" That's all doubt is.With due respect, I believe 'inquiry' is the first step towards true understanding. If I get caught in the cycle of doubting, I will only look at the 'negative' and shall not see the 'positives'. Spirituality is the science of the 'positive'...of the highest positive that we all are searching after - Love.
Wait, you said that we have to "inquire", but then you quote a verse that says we should not inquire?As for evidence, I can provide evidences to all your points from the scriptures, but, are you ready to take them as evidence? From my view, if you see, is it worth the trouble?
Here is one. I quote this so you understand that we have to 'inquire' and not 'doubt'. So please do not take it in any other way:
The Vedanta-sutra (1.1.1) states:
athato brahma jijnasa
"Now one should inquire about Brahman - The Absolute Truth, the transcendental, spiritual nature"
And why should I believe Lord Krishna actually said that? How do you know some other writer didn't write it at some point and attributed it to Lord Krishna?In the Bhagavad-Gītā, Lord Kṛṣṇa says:
ajñaś cāśraddadhānaś ca
saḿśayātmā vinaśyati
nāyaḿ loko 'sti na paro
na sukhaḿ saḿśayātmanaḥ
But ignorant and faithless persons who doubt the revealed scriptures do not attain God consciousness; they fall down. For the doubting soul there is happiness neither in this world nor in the next. [B.G. 4.40]
Honestly, I do not believe that Ramakrishnas are a sect to achieve Supreme Lord. Worshiping a Demi-God or Goddess, no one can achieve the Supreme. It is like boarding a plane to France, whilst wanting to go to Italy. If we dilute religion (meant for Supreme Lord's satisfaction), by seeking our sense gratification, and rejecting the pure religion. We will get diluted religion. In other words, we will get cheated; no one else!
Also, as for Manu Smrītī, I will not reject what has been accepted as a Scripture by the great Sages. I think they know more than me and they were far more intelligent than me. So, I will stick to my believing Manu Smrītī is a scripture. If someone believes otherwise; it is their choice.
Honestly, I do not believe that Ramakrishnas are a sect to achieve Supreme Lord. Worshiping a Demi-God or Goddess, no one can achieve the Supreme.
It is not.
It does exist for us. God was here long before humans started wondering about her/him/it.
We are the ones who have made up the religions to try to figure out what and who god is.
Maya
I read great wisdom in the Dao De Jing. I see great wisdom in the teachings of the Buddha. That wisdom is at the same level as that in our Scripture.
That is what I have observed.
Isn't that what the Bhagavata Purana said? (I don't have my copy on me to check at the moment.)
Those don't compose the entire religion, and I don't in any way believe in the "all-or-nothing" approach to religion.
I don't think you really understand how science works. It has improved over the centuries, not degraded.
It takes knowledge of the periodic table to properly manipulate the elements. They are forever connected.
What is the connection between celibacy and spirituality?
But how do we even know that this "spiritual field" even exists?
Doubt is not the same as disbelief. Disbelieving is making a firm statement; doubt is questioning, and is the beginning of inquiry.
You're a dualist; I'm not. Why? We've interpreted the Scriptures differently; that's why, in your eyes, I am not God, but in my eyes, you are still my Lord Siva trying to teach me a lesson. Why would the servant teach the master?
I've heard a quote (don't know the source) that has great wisdom, that I attempt to follow: those who claim to control the Gods are, in fact, controlled by the Gods.
Why is the information you've pointed to worthy of being taken seriously?
All forms of medicine have side effects; the vast majority of modern medicine is is just the completely distilled and purified good qualities of the same medicines use throughout history, but without the extra baggage that was there before.
I take it you've done that with all 18 Puranas?
Someday, I'll do just that. For now, I need to focus on Japanese.
Kali is this material world; she is Shakti. She is all Timespace. It's beyond Her that is Siva, the Eternally Unmoving. That is Spirit.
This wasn't determined from Scripture; I've determined this from Her image and Her Name.
Kali is AUM, and Siva is the silence before and after AUM. That is my perspective.
Inquiry is the next step from doubting. It's not focusing on the negative aspects; all it is is simply saying "Is that really so?" That's all doubt is.
Besides, in logic, when trying to determine if something is true, the default stance is that it's false. It's like that to help remove bias.
Wait, you said that we have to "inquire", but then you quote a verse that says we should not inquire?
Well, anyway, why shouldn't we inquire about Brahman?
And why should I believe Lord Krishna actually said that? How do you know some other writer didn't write it at some point and attributed it to Lord Krishna?
Even if he did, it would seem that, based on a brief bit of research into Sanskrit, the "Revealed Scriptures" aren't even mentioned in the verse at all; it seems to simply say "those without a lump of faith"(shraddha ~= faith, dhanah = lump/mass, a = negative), without mentioning what that faith may be in.
And, considering the fact that there are plenty of "doubting souls" who are perfectly happy in this world, I don't think it's applicable to what I'm talking about.
Hold on, hold on! I think I've pinpointed the main cause of disagreement between us!
You see, among the wisest Sages I've ever read have been members of the Ramakrishna Order, along with Sri Ramakrishna Himself(who was anything but worldly). But it seems you do not consider them to be Sages.
On the other hand, it seems you have quite the respect for Sri Prabhupada as one great Sage, but, while I acknowledge him as a Sage for his great Bhakti, his actual scholarship is unimpressive at best. (His translation of the Sri Isopanishad is, frankly, terrible.)
So... it seems we disagree on which Sages are worthy of being followed.
You have your own intelligence, I'm sure. Who was it who said, "I do not feel inclined to believe that the same God who endowed us with reason and intelligence had intended us to forgo their use"?
Many saints in the History of the Gaudiya Vaishnava tradition would disagree. Here is the story of one.
Ramakrishna and His Disciples - Christopher Isherwood - Google Books
Maya
Hold on, hold on! I think I've pinpointed the main cause of disagreement between us!
You see, among the wisest Sages I've ever read have been members of the Ramakrishna Order, along with Sri Ramakrishna Himself(who was anything but worldly). But it seems you do not consider them to be Sages.
On the other hand, it seems you have quite the respect for Sri Prabhupada as one great Sage, but, while I acknowledge him as a Sage for his great Bhakti, his actual scholarship is unimpressive at best. (His translation of the Sri Isopanishad is, frankly, terrible.)
So... it seems we disagree on which Sages are worthy of being followed.
You have your own intelligence, I'm sure. Who was it who said, "I do not feel inclined to believe that the same God who endowed us with reason and intelligence had intended us to forgo their use"?
Yes. If one cannot progress in the path of Kṛṣṇa conception, he is allowed to get married. How do you intend to justify marriage of homosexuals for progressing in the path of Kṛṣṇa conception, with the above?!!
Sri Krishna Chaitanya came for the fallen, even the homosexuals. He came for the fallen, not the pure devotees. He came for the women, when no woman could even be pujaris or wear Vaishnava tilaka on their heads.My point is exactly what I have said: marriage of homosexuals is not enjoined in the scriptures.