I am not going to try to speak for all homosexuals. I am a white gay man, born and raised in the USA, in an extremely ordinary suburban Christian family. That is what I know. I believe that the human experiences of other gay people, including women, Russians, and Muslims are quite different. But there are some commonalities and I hope that other gay people will chime in with their take on the subject.
Gay people tend to be dysfunctional and self-destructive. From the rates of STDs to shallow relationships to chemical dependency, the statistics are pretty ugly. But it isn't because they are gay, it is because they grew up and live in a homophobic world.
We are taught from an early age that homosexuals are hell borne abominations. We are sex-crazed fools who don't care about anything but lust. We really ought to drink ourselves to death, because we cannot possibly have a good life. Decent Christian folks cannot stand to have us around because we are a danger to the children. They will help along to hell, if they get a chance, because gay people are so disgusting that even God Hates F-gs. Who wouldn't want to beaten up with a tire iron if it gave them a chance to repent their evil ways and go to Heaven? We should be grateful that Christians love us enough to take that risk! And then we realize, "OMG, I am one of 'those people'.
That usually happens around adolescence. You know, the most angst and insecurity ridden part of most people's lives? When you really don't know who you are or what you should do? Who can you turn to, when telling anybody is tantamount to admitting that you are the scum of the earth TO YOURSELF! You know that admitting gay feelings, even to yourself, makes you an evil person the world is better off without. Nobody can help you. You can't trust anybody, not even yourself.
Combine ingredients, turn burner up to HIGH, simmer until age 18, dump out on floor.
Putting people by the million through this process results in millions of people who are severely damaged in ways that aren't going to fixed by some Christian telling us "Jesus Loves You". It will result in a whole sub-culture of people who don't care what society thinks is good and "moral", they mostly just care about dick, looks, stuff and how to get more of them. Morality was closed off to them when they were little kids by the Christians who run things.
Homophobes are the ones who cause the problems amongst gay people by saying things like @1robin says. Not that he is unusual, as we all know. It is everywhere here in the USA where I live, and much worse in many other places.
If you want to stop gay people from indulging in self-destructive and socially destructive behavior you have to stop trashing their lives from the time they are little kids. You have to start treating homosexuality as a harmless quirk and not as choosing God's(and society's) wrath because we prefer sin.
Tom
Gay people tend to be dysfunctional and self-destructive. From the rates of STDs to shallow relationships to chemical dependency, the statistics are pretty ugly. But it isn't because they are gay, it is because they grew up and live in a homophobic world.
We are taught from an early age that homosexuals are hell borne abominations. We are sex-crazed fools who don't care about anything but lust. We really ought to drink ourselves to death, because we cannot possibly have a good life. Decent Christian folks cannot stand to have us around because we are a danger to the children. They will help along to hell, if they get a chance, because gay people are so disgusting that even God Hates F-gs. Who wouldn't want to beaten up with a tire iron if it gave them a chance to repent their evil ways and go to Heaven? We should be grateful that Christians love us enough to take that risk! And then we realize, "OMG, I am one of 'those people'.
That usually happens around adolescence. You know, the most angst and insecurity ridden part of most people's lives? When you really don't know who you are or what you should do? Who can you turn to, when telling anybody is tantamount to admitting that you are the scum of the earth TO YOURSELF! You know that admitting gay feelings, even to yourself, makes you an evil person the world is better off without. Nobody can help you. You can't trust anybody, not even yourself.
Combine ingredients, turn burner up to HIGH, simmer until age 18, dump out on floor.
Putting people by the million through this process results in millions of people who are severely damaged in ways that aren't going to fixed by some Christian telling us "Jesus Loves You". It will result in a whole sub-culture of people who don't care what society thinks is good and "moral", they mostly just care about dick, looks, stuff and how to get more of them. Morality was closed off to them when they were little kids by the Christians who run things.
Homophobes are the ones who cause the problems amongst gay people by saying things like @1robin says. Not that he is unusual, as we all know. It is everywhere here in the USA where I live, and much worse in many other places.
If you want to stop gay people from indulging in self-destructive and socially destructive behavior you have to stop trashing their lives from the time they are little kids. You have to start treating homosexuality as a harmless quirk and not as choosing God's(and society's) wrath because we prefer sin.
Tom