Most of us who practice or follow a religious tradition have had some inexplicable, mystical experiences from time to time. In the moment, they are so powerful, real, and visceral they threaten to overwhelm or psyches. A vision of God appearing in the mind's eye. The words of an ancestor spirit echoing in the back of our minds. A synchronicity so uncanny you can't help but know someone.. something was watching out for you.
And then, it is over. Wrenched back into the apparent world, the memory fades. Then the hard work of discernment begins. What does it all mean? What just happened? How does this fit into the sacred stories of my tradition?
In a culture where substance materialism has gained traction, those of us who have mystical or religious experiences deal with gaslighting from without. Naysayers who deny the very experience, chalk it up to brain chemicals or coincidence, and tell us to ignore it and move on with our lives. These are often easy enough to ignore. But we also have to deal with gaslighting from within. After we come down from the inexplicable, the mystical, the magical, we ask that question - "did that really just happen?"
Perhaps gaslighting is a strong word to use here, but I hope that you take my meaning. As we practice discernment - careful interpretation and contextualization of our mystical experiences - we sometimes question in the wrong ways. We undermine ourselves, our own traditions, and our values. We replace our own sacred narratives with those from without. At times this has us deny our own experiences entirely.
How do you manage your religious experiences and the meaning you weave with them? Have you ever been challenged by your own inner gaslight whispering "that didn't really happen?" What did you do with that feeling? Where do you think that feeling came from? Within? Without? Where did you direct it? Do you still believe or did the magic die inside? What came of that?
And then, it is over. Wrenched back into the apparent world, the memory fades. Then the hard work of discernment begins. What does it all mean? What just happened? How does this fit into the sacred stories of my tradition?
In a culture where substance materialism has gained traction, those of us who have mystical or religious experiences deal with gaslighting from without. Naysayers who deny the very experience, chalk it up to brain chemicals or coincidence, and tell us to ignore it and move on with our lives. These are often easy enough to ignore. But we also have to deal with gaslighting from within. After we come down from the inexplicable, the mystical, the magical, we ask that question - "did that really just happen?"
Perhaps gaslighting is a strong word to use here, but I hope that you take my meaning. As we practice discernment - careful interpretation and contextualization of our mystical experiences - we sometimes question in the wrong ways. We undermine ourselves, our own traditions, and our values. We replace our own sacred narratives with those from without. At times this has us deny our own experiences entirely.
How do you manage your religious experiences and the meaning you weave with them? Have you ever been challenged by your own inner gaslight whispering "that didn't really happen?" What did you do with that feeling? Where do you think that feeling came from? Within? Without? Where did you direct it? Do you still believe or did the magic die inside? What came of that?