This seems to be another way of putting what I said: the parents force baptism on the child, who can't consent.
I think there's a strong argument in favour of the Baptist and Anabaptist doctrinal stance that baptism should be held off until someone is of a sufficient age of legal competence and responsibility to intellectually consent to his or her own admission into the Christian faith.
A free assent to any religious entry rite is always preferable in my mind, because as Pope Nicholas wrote to the Bulgar Khan in that 866 A.D. letter I cited earlier: "anything which is not voluntary cannot be good".
Arguably, there is no clear warrant for infant baptism in the New Testament scriptures. It is rather a Patristic custom of very ancient and venerable heritage, from the time when Christianity ceased being a minority, dissident cult and became "normative" for society.
However, in spite of my admiration and respect for the Anabaptist position, I do not think that infant baptism is a violation of human rights.
So long as a church recognises that the baptised infant has the natural right to renounce the faith of their upbringing upon legal age of maturity (which the Catholic Church defined doctrinally during the Second Vatican Council), I cannot personally see the harm that ensues from sprinkling some water on a baby's head over a baptismal font.
The idea that baptism imprints a permanent character on the soul - erasing the effects of original sin and bringing someone into mystical communion with Christ in his Body - is "superstitious" from the perspective of secular folk. To you, baptism is nothing more than sprinkling water on someone's head in a strange ritual over a font.
Because we don't believe in full body immersion, there is more danger to a child from bathtime than baptism.
It doesn't modify the child's body in anyway, nor deny them the right to legally change religion upon adulthood, which the church respects because the baptized do not lose their volition and freedom. Thankfully, we live in the West today without blasphemy, heresy or apostasy laws and this will remain the case, God willing, forever now.
St. Thomas Aquinas was (1225– 1274) one of the theologians who defended the "parental right" to raise a child in a given religion prior to their age of majority and to be fair to him, he was egalitarian in recognising that natural right as the same for all parents - Catholics, Jews, Muslims, pagans etc.:
SUMMA THEOLOGIAE: Those who receive Baptism (Tertia Pars, Q. 68)
The children of unbelievers either have the use of reason or they have not. If they have, then they already begin to control their own actions, in things that are of Divine or natural law. And therefore of their own accord, and against the will of their parents, they can receive Baptism, just as they can contract marriage.
If, however, they have not yet the use of free-will, according to the natural law they are under the care of their parents as long as they cannot look after themselves. For which reason we say that even the children of the ancients "were saved through the faith of their parents."
Wherefore it would be contrary to natural justice if such children were baptized against their parents' will; just as it would be if one having the use of reason were baptized against his will.
Moreover under the circumstances it would be dangerous to baptize the children of unbelievers; for they would be liable to lapse into unbelief, by reason of their natural affection for their parents. Therefore it is not the custom of the Church to baptize the children of unbelievers against their parents' will.
Just as parents have the right to decide how a child is to be educated (i.e. they could pay for a private school or go for the state sector), I see no reason why one should be prohibited from rearing their child in their own faith, so long as it is crystal clear that once the child comes of age, they have no right to compel him or her against their will from continuing to practise this ancestrally or parentally inherited creed.If, however, they have not yet the use of free-will, according to the natural law they are under the care of their parents as long as they cannot look after themselves. For which reason we say that even the children of the ancients "were saved through the faith of their parents."
Wherefore it would be contrary to natural justice if such children were baptized against their parents' will; just as it would be if one having the use of reason were baptized against his will.
Moreover under the circumstances it would be dangerous to baptize the children of unbelievers; for they would be liable to lapse into unbelief, by reason of their natural affection for their parents. Therefore it is not the custom of the Church to baptize the children of unbelievers against their parents' will.
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