fullyveiled muslimah
Evil incarnate!
I largely agree with the OP. I feel bad for men who are not expected to do much in the society at all. Baby makers is what they are now. Men are only expected to mke the baby and "take care of it" via child support checks. This is accepted by women and even wanted by them. I wouldn't blame altogehter the feminist movement, because so many other things are involved. Men aren't wanted or expected to be the breadwinners of the families. Nor the protectors of the wives and children. This has lead to a social anarchy. Women assume they can raise a child on their own without input from the fathers, but that couldn't be further fromt he truth. Making money doesn't raise children. A mother can only be a mother, she can never be a father. She can't teach her son all the aspects of manhood because she has never experienced manhood before and she never will.
A long time ago, the seeds were planted that for a woman to be a homemaker was weak, demoralizing, and subservient. To raise her children was menial work that wasn't as important as what the man role was in the family. Women underestimated that position. We are the bearers of children which is unmatched strength right there, something men could never survive through. Then we are the molders of those children. These children will be the adults of tomorrow and women had more hands on with their own children to shape them into productive good people. Now other people are weiding the power of molding the childrens minds while mommy is out working. At this stage in the game alot of women have no choice but to do it themselves. It has created resentment on both sides. Men are quick to be dismissed by women who tell them they aren't good enough and unnecessary. How many women when they break up with or divorce, keep the children away from the father? How long have men had to actually fight for the rights to see their children legally? In Illinois right today a man can be arrested for having his own child, if the mother feels so inclined to call the police on him and charge him for kidnapping. They do this too, it's not just hypothetical. All this culminates to make a man feel like what? We don't even know, and many women couldn't care less what men feel like. They've gotten so absorbed with their own uprising, that men are regarded as obsolete nowadays and that's wrong. Men aren't obsolete. Men are lovely human beings with awesome qualities. His maleness is what is beautiful about him. And a woman's femaleness is what's beautiful about her. Instead of trying to erase differences that will never go anywhere, why don't we try embracing them? The gender roles of aforetime can be good if neither party abuses the rights and power given them.
A long time ago, the seeds were planted that for a woman to be a homemaker was weak, demoralizing, and subservient. To raise her children was menial work that wasn't as important as what the man role was in the family. Women underestimated that position. We are the bearers of children which is unmatched strength right there, something men could never survive through. Then we are the molders of those children. These children will be the adults of tomorrow and women had more hands on with their own children to shape them into productive good people. Now other people are weiding the power of molding the childrens minds while mommy is out working. At this stage in the game alot of women have no choice but to do it themselves. It has created resentment on both sides. Men are quick to be dismissed by women who tell them they aren't good enough and unnecessary. How many women when they break up with or divorce, keep the children away from the father? How long have men had to actually fight for the rights to see their children legally? In Illinois right today a man can be arrested for having his own child, if the mother feels so inclined to call the police on him and charge him for kidnapping. They do this too, it's not just hypothetical. All this culminates to make a man feel like what? We don't even know, and many women couldn't care less what men feel like. They've gotten so absorbed with their own uprising, that men are regarded as obsolete nowadays and that's wrong. Men aren't obsolete. Men are lovely human beings with awesome qualities. His maleness is what is beautiful about him. And a woman's femaleness is what's beautiful about her. Instead of trying to erase differences that will never go anywhere, why don't we try embracing them? The gender roles of aforetime can be good if neither party abuses the rights and power given them.