Sorry for the confusion. It's just that Quakers have a weird way of getting married, and so I made one of those "reference jokes," wherein I don't actually say something funny on my own, but I refer the recipient to something funny that they would probably know about. So . . . I mentioned the marriage thing to "remind" you of how Quakers get married. Did you ever even hear about what they do, or did my joke fall as flatly on the ground as it seems? You see, most marriages that take place in churches have all that stuff that you have to do, like say vows, and have the preacher say the ol' "till death do you part" stuff or whatever it is that happens. It's a huge to-do with all that stuff. Quaker marriages are really simple. The couple stands up in a regular meeting, says they want to get married, and then everybody approves it and they sit down. That was the "reference joke." I was refferring you to that comical practice. Once agian, I apologize for not being as good as joke teller as I think, yet continuing to make them.