Yesterday, the hospital I work at moved EVERYTHING from the old hospital to the new one- in one go. It was such a **** show... We were all just scrambling to get everthing finished, and we did! Marvelously so. I didn't actually start my new position then, but instead they needed people in the dish room, so that's where I went!
See, this dish room had brand new equipment that no one had ever used before. We had to kind of just fumble in the dark and hope everything turned out ok. An interesting thing happened, though. People came to me with their questions. Before I knew it, I was leading the whole production and getting things done smoothly. Never really realized I had that kind of leadership quality, but apperently I do!
It got me excited for my new position, though. When I do it, it's going to be something that has a lot of responsibility. It's going to be on the hardest floor of the hospital, and it's going to take someone who can roll up their sleeves and get things done. I think I fill that roll pretty well.
So, things are going really well for me. I think it shows, too, because I've been getting a lot of attention from women lately. I've had to kind of friend zone a couple of them- they were a little too eager, and that's not really what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a long term kind of thing.
Therein lies the issue, though...
You see, though things are going great for me- better than ever before- I'm still very much caught within my issues. I've only ever escaped my main problems a month and a half ago? There are plenty of things about myself that I am very much either working on, or are just starting to work on now. I've neglected myself for a very long time, and only now am I actually facing those issues and fighting them off.
I've started texting this woman on a daily basis, and she's pretty damn wonderful. She knows some of my curent situation, but she hasn't really asked too many questions yet. One day, though, I'm going to have to spill the beans when it comes to the struggles I face, and my past... and I feel like when I do, she will probably ghost me. I wouldn't blame her, either.
I have red flags that haven't been dealt with yet, since I'm still very much just escaping my previous situation. Hell, I'm still sleeping on a cot (or as I tell my roommate, "The sad bed for lonely boys." ).
I feel like even when those issues are long since healed, though, how do I tell anyone I'm with in the future about the ****ty life experiences I've had in the past? There aren't very many people who would understand those things... I can't help feeling that by divulging that information, their opinion of me would drop.
I know it is what it is, and I have to be honest with folks I get that close to. I also know that everyone struggles against their own demons, and no one lives life unscathed. I do feel like my issues make me less of a person, though, and I have a lot of room to compensate for what I lack from my faliures. Only now am I starting to live, and I do feel like my past is kind of shackled around my ankle- like I'm just forced to drag this thing around forever.
Hmmm... Or, maybe I'm just overthinking things?
See, this dish room had brand new equipment that no one had ever used before. We had to kind of just fumble in the dark and hope everything turned out ok. An interesting thing happened, though. People came to me with their questions. Before I knew it, I was leading the whole production and getting things done smoothly. Never really realized I had that kind of leadership quality, but apperently I do!
It got me excited for my new position, though. When I do it, it's going to be something that has a lot of responsibility. It's going to be on the hardest floor of the hospital, and it's going to take someone who can roll up their sleeves and get things done. I think I fill that roll pretty well.
So, things are going really well for me. I think it shows, too, because I've been getting a lot of attention from women lately. I've had to kind of friend zone a couple of them- they were a little too eager, and that's not really what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a long term kind of thing.
Therein lies the issue, though...
You see, though things are going great for me- better than ever before- I'm still very much caught within my issues. I've only ever escaped my main problems a month and a half ago? There are plenty of things about myself that I am very much either working on, or are just starting to work on now. I've neglected myself for a very long time, and only now am I actually facing those issues and fighting them off.
I've started texting this woman on a daily basis, and she's pretty damn wonderful. She knows some of my curent situation, but she hasn't really asked too many questions yet. One day, though, I'm going to have to spill the beans when it comes to the struggles I face, and my past... and I feel like when I do, she will probably ghost me. I wouldn't blame her, either.
I have red flags that haven't been dealt with yet, since I'm still very much just escaping my previous situation. Hell, I'm still sleeping on a cot (or as I tell my roommate, "The sad bed for lonely boys." ).
I feel like even when those issues are long since healed, though, how do I tell anyone I'm with in the future about the ****ty life experiences I've had in the past? There aren't very many people who would understand those things... I can't help feeling that by divulging that information, their opinion of me would drop.
I know it is what it is, and I have to be honest with folks I get that close to. I also know that everyone struggles against their own demons, and no one lives life unscathed. I do feel like my issues make me less of a person, though, and I have a lot of room to compensate for what I lack from my faliures. Only now am I starting to live, and I do feel like my past is kind of shackled around my ankle- like I'm just forced to drag this thing around forever.
Hmmm... Or, maybe I'm just overthinking things?