Yeah, I'm home now. Just about coping - what with internet shopping and the assistance of some carers, but it's not easy. Apparently another four weeks before the casts come off.
I guess most American homes are a bit more spacious than British ones so that a wheelchair is quite a tight squeeze in many places.
I am glad you are home but sorry to hear it is not easy. Will you be able to walk around when the casts come off? It is amazing how many things we take for granted in life until something like an accident or illness occurs. But at least in your case it is only a temporary inconvenience. I saw a man in the store in front of me in line yesterday and he was in a wheelchair and he had no legs. People just have to adjust to these things and some people do better than others. This life is not that great for everyone and what people think is so great in the material world is just an illusion anyway. It is all so transitory, so fleeting.
I have been very fortunate so far with my physical health but as you know I have not been as fortunate with emotional health. It is a lot better now than ever, but I have a genetic predisposition to depression and anxiety so I will never bean upbeat person. However, I have an inner peace nobody can touch. Also, if I had not suffered so much in life, I would not be who I am today; I would be shallow.
Yes, American homes are generally more spacious. We have a very big house, but you’d never wheel your way around my house because it is so cluttered... That tends to happen when one has 11 cats and all the stuff needed to care for them.
I'm sorry, but whatever proposals are made about any God and/or an afterlife are no concerns for me. As for the quote Man proposes but God disposes, well I dispose of any propositions I can't answer. Hence my leaving the matter alone, and I see no reason to be forced to make a choice. My universe might vary from others. I'm still a believer in free will but I see no relevance to the wager, since no matter how one tries to disprove it, we have to live with what we believe.
I do not like Pascal’s Wager as proposed because it would be dishonest to pretend to believe when you really don’t believe just for a reward. In the Baha’i Faith, we are not supposed to do what we do for a reward in the afterlife, although we know there will be one because it would not be just for God to expect us to believe and follow the teachings and laws of His religion if there was no reward in an afterlife.
“WORSHIP thou God in such wise that if thy worship lead thee to the fire, no alteration in thine adoration would be produced, and so likewise if thy recompense should be paradise.... Fire and paradise both bow down and prostrate themselves before God. That which is worthy of His Essence is to worship Him for His sake, without fear of fire, or hope of paradise.
Although when true worship is offered, the worshipper is delivered from the fire, and entereth the paradise of God’s good-pleasure, yet such should not be the motive of his act. However, God’s favour and grace ever flow in accordance with the exigencies of His inscrutable wisdom.”
Selections From the Writings of the Báb, pp. 77-78
By not making a choice you are making a choice because you are choosing not to believe in God or a religion. However, in my opinion it is better not to choose than to make
the wrong choice or to choose to believe in something you do not really believe in, just out of fear. I am very fortunate that I do not have to worry about that because I have a religion I really believe in... Knowing God exists and knowing something about God is half the battle but the other half is loving God and getting close to God. God and I have not had the best relationship.
What others believe is no concern for me. We all no doubt can look at the evidence and make up our minds but what others decide, even if it is a majority view, again doesn't bother me. I just don't think Pascal has a right to say we must choose.
I do not think that Pascal is saying
we must choose but rather I think he is saying it is wise to choose, given the stakes are very high. One can choose to believe the stakes are not high if they want to, but that will not change reality. If there is a God who revealed a religion He wants everyone to believe in, then the stakes are
very high. What the punishment will be if we choose not to believe in it I cannot say... I can only say what the rewards will be for believing, and only generally, not specifically.
“Death proffereth unto every confident believer the cup that is life indeed. It bestoweth joy, and is the bearer of gladness. It conferreth the gift of everlasting life.
As to those that have tasted of the fruit of man’s earthly existence, which is the recognition of the one true God, exalted be His glory, their life hereafter is such as We are unable to describe. The knowledge thereof is with God, alone, the Lord of all worlds.” Gleanings From the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh, pp. 345-346
Of course I cannot know for certain, but I do not think that God punishes anyone, although He might judge us. I think we inflict punishment upon ourselves.
“He who shall accept and believe, shall receive his reward; and he who shall turn away, shall receive none other than his own punishment.”
Gleanings From the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh, p. 339
Our punishment will come about from our“realization” of what we could have done in life but didn’t do, opportunities we missed. We might have regrets resulting from of what we chose to believe or disbelieve and how that affected the way we lived and our deeds. That applies to this life as well as the afterlife because true loss is not knowing your true self; so nonbelievers suffer by virtue of not knowing the purpose of their existence and what God’s will is for them, even though they do not realize it. The difference is that we can still change our mind in this life because we have free will. We won’t have that in the afterlife so we will have to rely upon the mercy and bounty of God and the prayers of others to make progress.
You are on the right track because it should
never be your concern what others believe. Baha’u’llah wrote that.
“If, in the Day when all the peoples of the earth will be gathered together, any man should, whilst standing in the presence of God, be asked: “Wherefore hast thou disbelieved in My Beauty and turned away from My Self,” and if such a man should reply and say: “Inasmuch as all men have erred, and none hath been found willing to turn his face to the Truth, I, too, following their example, have grievously failed to recognize the Beauty of the Eternal,” such a plea will, assuredly, be rejected.For the faith of no man can be conditioned by any one except himself.”
Gleanings From the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh, p. 143
That passage kind of indicates there might be a Judgment, but I cannot say that for certain. God likes to leave us in the lurch about some things. I think He does that to keep us on our toes, even though I do not think it is necessarily fair.