merely pointing towards the point that its natural for people to protect themselves, its instinctive or part of our methods for survival.
It's natural for us to kill each other as well, by this use of 'natural.' In some ways, that last statement is actually making your point. But I realize you'll probably disagree.
Just to understand your position more, you're basically non-violent correct?
Basically, but far more so in principle. I am a person who won't willingly kill insects. And yet I have, recently. The amount of physical fights I've been in my life (outside of training) is something I could count on one hand. But catch me in a particular mood, and throw say water on me, and I might strike back. But all of these incidents are against my 'better judgment' and the principle I think is most rational. Which is discussion/debate I feel we are having.
i fail to see how the body does not offer life (not sure what you mean by ongoing life though)... However, i fail to see why allow yourself to be a victim of someone else, if you can help it.
Reducing or removing allegiance to body identification as sole understanding for 'life as we know it' does dissipate ideas of victimhood. That may not be noticeable if a) you simply remove allegiance to body identity and leave vacuum there (which is unrealistic, but is perceived fear of those who have allegiance to body) and b) you attempt to change thinking for say minutes or low level of time, and think that is enough of that. I said previously that this can be lifelong work. I generally don't see victims anymore. Victimization and sacrifice are ideas we do to ourselves. Failure to see this and/or take responsibility for this, can lead to level of denial that will have emotional backing which is far too challenging for me to overcome here in forum intellectual discussion. But, I'll be clear that I absolutely stand by this as most reasonable approach to actual protecting and updating 'life as we know it' in way that is based far more on facts than emotion.
How is it that you're saying this body is not offering what we think it does yet think its so destructive when an attacker is killed? When a murderer is killed?
Our lower consciousness is the perceiver of body as means for attack and for destruction. It goes a bit deeper than this, but I'll stay away from that deeper understanding as I don't think it needs to be brought up, even while I hinted at it in previous post. What I did say, is that lower consciousness is essentially willing for you to identify with body, and identify with impermanence / destruction. The body becomes, in this understanding, more or less a symbol, but because of the identification as 'me' it isn't 'mere symbol' but instead is 'existence as you know it.' It is (higher) consciousness that is offering life as we know it, and as I (choose to) understand it.
That is, you seem to be suggesting that a victim being murdered is better than the victim defending themselves and killing their attacker... how come its so bad when the murderer, the attacker, the person who created this mess to begin with, gets killed?
The last question is a good one. Before that though, I will from this point be repeating what I finished last post with, which is forgiveness is the way a perceived victim can defend themselves. If forgiveness is undermined and seeing for what it isn't, it can essentially be mocked as 'ineffectual' or 'downright weakness.' But forgiveness, is mindset to employ now, not later when hypothetical life threatening situation arises to come take everything away from you.
For me, it is not wrong that we kill murders, but okay that murders do what they do (namely murder). It's all 'bad' though I'd spin it more in vein of, "not working." It's all an ongoing teaching of sorts that leads to awareness of 'attack sometimes works. Just look at that hurt person or dead person, and the point is made crystal clear. Attack works, and therefore is justified as way of effecting desired change in this situation.' That's the blunt way of seeing it for what it is. But also realizing that this will go on for as long as attack (and moreover fear and guilt) are determined to be what is valuable in living life as we know it. The way around this is via forgiveness. And while it can invoke a quick fix (in a miraculous sort of way), the reality is that if conviction is fairly strong in, "must defend body at all costs, hurting attackers is sometimes very good, and punishment is part of life," then the shift in perception that forgiveness is calling forth (which is actually very simple, I'd say obvious), will be perceived as incredibly hard, if not impossible. Hence, this can be lifelong, or could be something that is fully grasped, and way of life by end of this coming weekend.
Note ... i do not expect people to always be able to apply it, do not expect them to always apply it in the sense of letting go of things that belong to them, and do not judge people who do not to be doing something wrong. It depends.
I would apologize if beyond the intellectual discussion we are engaged in, if you think I expect this of everyone as in it is unreasonable to ever think anything other than forgiveness. I'm not applying forgiveness 100% of the time. Yet, I do think it applies 100% of the time where attack is perceived, or guilt is determined and desired to be met by punishment, or fear is overwhelming thought, and so on. I truly believe it applies, in reasonable way. But I'll work on expecting this of myself for awhile longer before I look to expect it of others. Here in intellectual discussion, I do believe it is way to replace mindset that conjures up hypotheticals where "you know for sure you're going to die unless you attack first."
So, in other words, you oppose all forms of punishments?
In principle, yes. But even "oppose" stands out for me. It is more in vein for me of, not seen as working out well for us.
How do you suggest things should work out in a society? Should all people forfeit their right to anything they own or care about?
I suggest things would work out as well, likely better, if there was element of society (as there is element within us) that practices forgiveness consistently, and is included in our way of life, rather than say off in some compound or isolated area trying to perfect things away from us. I think there is some of this going on already, but obviously there could be more. The more the merrier.
I think with ship in perception that comes with allegiance to forgiveness (really Love), the opposite of forfeiting anything and caring would occur. One way I do often put this shift in sound bite form is that to live this way, you have to sacrifice the belief in sacrifice. Currently, we think in order to 'save a life' or 'be a hero in this world' (based on many stories we have) that something very valuable in the physical world may have to be given up. Hence, we have slogan for soldiers who make the 'ultimate sacrifice.' IMO, heroic mentality doesn't work this way, especially 'in the moment.' It does what needed to be done, and is willing to set aside physical things as if they are no longer needed, not where the actual value is realized.
It seems that you view things in black and white and a rather too simplistic view (at least regarding this subject).
To use abortion as the example, how are you against abortion in any case?
How do you deal with cases where the woman's life is in danger? And what about if that is recognized when she's in the second month for example? How are you still against it?
Does that mean you're saying she should die?
In case of woman's life is in danger, I think it transcends the type of choice we are talking about. I believe it becomes the doctor's choice, more or less at this point. And, that I would trust doctor's wisdom (not 100%, but in general) who I believe would be looking to save physical form of all involved. I do think it quite plausible that prayer could help here, as could other spiritual measures that clearly influence physical perceptions. But if at end of some hypothetical situation where woman is essentially okay (not in immediate grave danger) and doctor is presenting data that says, 'only way for you to survive is if we abort the pregnancy,' then that would be the one hypothetical where I would say, absolutely the woman has right to choose her life over the life of fetus/potential human.
I am a bit more gray on this than I think you give me credit for and that I perceive others as. I think a woman can choose abortion whenever she desires. Just as I believe we all can choose murder whenever we desire. There's nothing really stopping that. Laws aren't preventing that and so, my grayness meter I think is a little bit deeper given what I feel is reality here. Given my ultimate stance of 'forgiveness is the way,' I've intellectually entertained a whole lots of stuff. In my book, it is all allowable. And in world we live in, I observe a lot of it has been done, is plausibly happening right now as you read this. And not a darned thing you are able to do about it given versions of 'how society should be set up.' Hence, forgiveness presents another way of seeing that while it may allow for a whole lot, does seek to correct the error where it is (first) made, rather than attempt to project correction as something 'they' have to do, or 'they' deserved to be punished, for what 'they' have done' in MY judgment.