PureX
Veteran Member
Great post!When I say I'm new I grew up very religious. Door-to-door religious and skeptical of what I was preaching but most of my time was spent either in school or in church with a slightly less amount of time dedicated to sleeping.
I know now that this religion you could all guess if I told you it wasn't Mormon but is based on older stories and somewhat related but similar to some chiropractic ideas except they don't accept blood transfusions.
Raising kids in this manner while not quite Jesus Camp level abuse and I won't speak for everyone I grew up with because they would disagree perhaps. I forgot the podcast I listened to recently but I think it was about Feynman and someone said kids ask religious questions which we don't have answers to so we choose to lie to them. Not because we are evil people that want to lie but we don't know and when we don't know we often get uncomfortable. So lets say your not religious but you might give some sperm and egg or birds and the bees but ultimately the kid is asking why am I here? You are answering HOW they got here but they want to know WHY. Its a hard question to answer but since I'm new I'll toss it out to you the reader. I hope all is well.
Why indeed!
I think we're here to ask ourselves this question, and then to have to decide an answer for ourselves. Because when we do that, we are then deciding who we will become as a result of the answers we choose. We get to "create ourselves".
For example, let's say I decide the answer to this question is ... to serve my own desires. That's why I exist. Hedonism. And having made that choice, I then become it through my thoughts and actions. I become the embodiment of the philosophy I chose.
Or let's say I decide that the answer to the question, "why am I here?", is to serve others. Just the opposite of hedonism, but altruism. And having made that choice, I then become an altruist through my thoughts and actions. In essence, I create myself by how I chose to answer this unanswerable question.
I think that maybe this is WHY this question is unanswerable from a perspective of knowledge or surety. We can't know why, so we have to decide why according to our own innate spirit. And in so doing we become that innate spirit.