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Gay Christian

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member
Oh, yippee! another gay/Christian bashing thread!

It's not a matter of "dismissing." First of all, the Bible is not the be-all-end-all of the Faith. One can disagree with what the Bible says and still maintain one's faith. Second, it's not a crime to weigh the texts, prioritizing some over others. We do it all the time. Jesus did it all the time. Third, it's important to parse out what the Bible really says. A surface reading of a translation isn't good enough when one is making theological judgments based on the texts. There are no Biblical texts that mention homosexuality. 0. The Bible does mention some kind of same-sex acts, but we have no assurance that these passages reference committed, loving, equitable and consensual acts. And yes, it does make a difference.

Homosexuality came under the banner of sexual immorality. It was right up there
with having sex with minors, adultery and the like.
I was recently reminded of the late Liberace. He denied he was homosexual but
some reports said he had a new man every day. And gave a few of them what
they gave him - AIDS.
I happen to like the gays in my life. But the point is, in debating gay issues, that
the issue of casual gay sex, the steam houses, the gay boys etc doesn't enter the
argument - and if it does you are "homophobic" and thus the debate, and you, are
shut down.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
What I understand about Christianity would probably surprise you, as well as my understanding of what religions actually are in general, but I don't think you actually care. I don't need to be a Christian to understand what Christianity is.
I doubt that you understand it all that well. Why? because you're taking one slice of it, lumping all the differences together into a facsimile of that slice, and saying that the whole thing isn't worth it. When you look at a religion -- not just Xy -- you'll see exactly what you want to see. Your statements aren't purely evidential; they're largely opinion. Your opinion -- which is fine, except that your opinion doesn't speak for the collective reality.

What you don't understand is that I am perfectly aware of how "diverse" Christianity is, and the claims that it's somehow counter-cultural or up to some process of reinterpretation. I just disagree with them, and I think they're dishonest, for a wide variety of reasons. That's precisely what I'm critical of.
I'm sorry you disagree and that you think they're dishonest. I'm not going to waste time and bandwidth going into some kind of apologetic, because you're not going to buy it. Suffice to say that my initial summarization and judgment of your first post stands pat. It was a terrible post, and your subsequent posts have done nothing to defend it.

Unless it's a New Religious Movement, it's pretty likely that your religion is inherently tied to tradition and culture. Surely enough, if we look at Christianity, it is.
All religions are. What's your point? Being rooted in a cultural tradition is not to say that it can't and doesn't grow beyond that particular root.

you're going to have to give me a more substantive reason for why same-sex marriage is supported by scripture than the church fathers just not knowing any better given that Greco-Roman culture had gone quite a way towards normalizing homosexuality before the church fathers showed up.
I didn't say it was supported. I did, however, say that the Bible is not the be-all-end-all of the Faith. In fact, the Bible mentions nothing about homosexuality. If you are as "aware" of the Bible as you claim to be of the religion, you'd know that.

I think the defining trait of Christianity has never really been love.
Some people think the world is flat too. That doesn't make it so.

As a cultural movement, it's mostly been about xenophobia and church politics.
We're not talking about the "cultural movement," though. We're talking about the countercultural claims.

The Bible itself has its construction overseen by an Emperor, and would later be canonized through political movements.
See above concerning the Bible.

I do question, however, how one manages to divorce themselves so completely from what Christianity as a movement was composed to do and how it was originally interpreted and still call themselves Christian.
You seem to think that at some point, the religion was a tidy, uniform package. It never was. Apparently, not even the disciples could agree among themselves -- or with Jesus.

And I'm not saying they're being insincere, either
You said they were pretending. I'd call that "being insincere." You're either backpedaling, or you don't have a solid argument to begin with.

There is something wrong with that. It artificially inflates the numbers of Christianity while not bringing anything of uniquely Christian substance to the table.
What is unique about Xy has not yet been mentioned. But you will touch on it a little later.

Why call yourself Christian if that's all you're referring to? Why repurpose political propaganda to mean something completely different from what it was intended to mean by the ones who created and enforced it?
The religion is far more than just its political intrigue. And I thought we'd covered the whole "changing, transforming" thing. And by the way, I don't think Xy has departed all that much -- at least in some important ways -- from what it was "intended" to be.

Why would you believe that your savior, the supposedly all-knowing and all-powerful God, would incarnate just to give teachings that would mislead people into causing so much systemic oppression against you?
Remember I said that you'd mention it later? Here it is. I don't think you understand what I believe at all. Xy is largely a religion of myth, metaphor, allegory and theological construct to help us make meaning of our experiences. The Incarnation is not an ontological truth -- it's a metaphorical truth. But the truth is still truth. What Xy intends is to mend the "gap" we have mistakenly perceived between humanity and divinity. I find that it accomplishes that quite well, if one takes the time to truly understand the theology and the mythology.

Oh! And: I don't understand why you believe the church is systematically oppressing me? Why do you think that?

Why would you venerate a deity that knowingly (and presumably, if omnipotent, intentionally) became the icon of homosexual persecution for millenia? Where's the sense in that?
God hasn't become that. People have become that. Many people have made God into that. but that's not God as I find God. The Bible certainly doesn't paint God as "persecuting homosexuality" -- unless, of course, if you're reading it incorrectly.

It's been real, but you're simply too entrenched in your own bias to carry on a decent discussion with. Too difficult to fight through the inconsistencies to get to what's really there.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Homosexuality came under the banner of sexual immorality. It was right up there
with having sex with minors, adultery and the like.
Nope. Homosexuality is never broached in the Bible. The ancients were unaware of sexual orientation. That's precisely why same-sex activity could never be normalized. They just didnt' have the science to do so.

I happen to like the gays in my life.
This is the same kind of discrimination as "I have friends who are black." You're so caught up in your own bias, that you can't even recognize it as bias.
 

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member
Nope. Homosexuality is never broached in the Bible. The ancients were unaware of sexual orientation. That's precisely why same-sex activity could never be normalized. They just didnt' have the science to do so.


This is the same kind of discrimination as "I have friends who are black." You're so caught up in your own bias, that you can't even recognize it as bias.

No bias, you can like someone but not approve of their life. I know a few people who
cheat on their taxes and I don't like it because I enjoy roads, hospitals and social
welfare.
One on hand we are told that some men can't help being gay, and on the other that
for two thousand years the Jews didn't know what a homosexual was. Which is it?
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
No bias, you can like someone but not approve of their life. I know a few people who
cheat on their taxes and I don't like it because I enjoy roads, hospitals and social
welfare.
One on hand we are told that some men can't help being gay, and on the other that
for two thousand years the Jews didn't know what a homosexual was. Which is it?
Both.
 

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member

Cultures have always understood male homosexuality. Female variants
were a bit of a problem. But if you were caught in the act of sodomy in
Ancient Israel it was death to you. Or having sex with cows, or your
neighbor, or your daughter, or your mother etc..
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Cultures have always understood male homosexuality. Female variants
were a bit of a problem. But if you were caught in the act of sodomy in
Ancient Israel it was death to you. Or having sex with cows, or your
neighbor, or your daughter, or your mother etc..
Acts are not orientations. If they understood it (as we do) they wouldn’t be against it as “unnatural.”
 

columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
Cultures have always understood male homosexuality. Female variants
were a bit of a problem. But if you were caught in the act of sodomy in
Ancient Israel it was death to you. Or having sex with cows, or your
neighbor, or your daughter, or your mother etc..
I don't believe that is the case. They were primitive, lots of things we take for granted they just didn't know.

They didn't even really know where babies came from. They thought a man planted his seed in a vessel where it grew. Like a kernel of grain in a field. The fact that the baby is almost entirely in the mother, all the father really does is keep the gene pool stirred, was quite beyond their understanding.
Tom
 

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member
I don't believe that is the case. They were primitive, lots of things we take for granted they just didn't know.

They didn't even really know where babies came from. They thought a man planted his seed in a vessel where it grew. Like a kernel of grain in a field. The fact that the baby is almost entirely in the mother, all the father really does is keep the gene pool stirred, was quite beyond their understanding.
Tom

Not for the Jews, not in Israel. They were the smartest people in the Middle East.
Other nations employed them for government positions, particularly Treasuries.
The bible makes it clear those who had babies knew where they came from -
in the case of Judah, ca 2000 BC, the daughter in law he wanted "burned" for
having a baby out of wedlock, proved to be his own.
 

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member
Acts are not orientations. If they understood it (as we do) they wouldn’t be against it as “unnatural.”

Not sure what you mean here - and I am getting tired.
But in the bible what was "natural" was a Big Problem.
Human nature was the enemy. And we are born to
trouble, as Solomon put it.
So you could be "born" a homosexual, that's too bad,
practice it and you died.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
Not sure what you mean here - and I am getting tired.
But in the bible what was "natural" was a Big Problem.
Human nature was the enemy. And we are born to
trouble, as Solomon put it.
So you could be "born" a homosexual, that's too bad,
practice it and you died.
According to the biblical writers, there was no such thing as a sexual orientation. And I think you're misreading the Bible. God made nature -- including human nature -- and it was "very good."

Why would God make someone to be a certain way, and then not allow them the same expression of love as other people in committed, loving, equitable and consensual ways? That's utterly dehumanizing.
 

columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
Not for the Jews, not in Israel. They were the smartest people in the Middle East.
Other nations employed them for government positions, particularly Treasuries.
What makes you think this, other than self-aggrandizing stories told amongst themselves?

The bible makes it clear those who had babies knew where they came from -
in the case of Judah, ca 2000 BC, the daughter in law he wanted "burned" for
having a baby out of wedlock, proved to be his own.
This has nothing whatever to do with their understanding of reproductive biology. But it does call into question the first half of your post.
Tom
 

columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
Why would God make someone to be a certain way, and then not allow them the same expression of love as other people in committed, loving, equitable and consensual ways? That's utterly dehumanizing.
While I understand the "maximizing procreation" angle of the Scriptural prohibition, I can't help believing that it's not even that sophisticated and evidence-based.

Most guys have a gut level "Ew Gross!" reaction to the idea of sex with another dude. Of course, this would be especially strong if it's reinforced during their formative years. In a culture where sophisticated ethics like "If it's none of your business then keep your opinions to yourself." are still in the future they wouldn't keep them to themselves. They would assume that God also finds male homosex totally disgusting and and put such words into His mouth.
Tom
 

Gandalf

Horn Tooter
I am Muslim and have no problems coming home to by boyfriend. II used to hold guilt about my feelings when I was a little boy but by the time I was in my teen years I knew exactly what I liked. Despite being a Muslim even I did not hold much guilt concerning it and I can't say I am dismissing a part of my religion but at the same time I am no longer very orthodox in my religion either.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
While I understand the "maximizing procreation" angle of the Scriptural prohibition, I can't help believing that it's not even that sophisticated and evidence-based.

Most guys have a gut level "Ew Gross!" reaction to the idea of sex with another dude. Of course, this would be especially strong if it's reinforced during their formative years. In a culture where sophisticated ethics like "If it's none of your business then keep your opinions to yourself." are still in the future they wouldn't keep them to themselves. They would assume that God also finds male homosex totally disgusting and and put such words into His mouth.
Tom
Yup. Plus, there was the whole honor/shame cultural ethic in play. It was shameful for a man to act as a woman and also shameful for a man to treat an equal like a woman.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
I am Muslim and have no problems coming home to by boyfriend. II used to hold guilt about my feelings when I was a little boy but by the time I was in my teen years I knew exactly what I liked. Despite being a Muslim even I did not hold much guilt concerning it and I can't say I am dismissing a part of my religion but at the same time I am no longer very orthodox in my religion either.
I think one can take one's piety too far. One has to decide for oneself how one's religion best serves to enlighten, set free, foster growth, etc. When the religion becomes cumbersome or harmful, best to back off, assuming that one isn't engaging in something harmful.
 

February-Saturday

Devil Worshiper
It's been real, but you're simply too entrenched in your own bias to carry on a decent discussion with. Too difficult to fight through the inconsistencies to get to what's really there.

It has not been real; you've been mischaracterizing my argument this entire time and blaming it on my "bias." You have had nothing of substance to add. You're just irate with me.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
It has not been real; you've been mischaracterizing my argument this entire time and blaming it on my "bias." You have had nothing of substance to add. You're just irate with me.
Nope. Not irate; just done. You're making claims about Xy that are based in your own biased opinion, and then presenting those opinions as fact. One can't fight biased opinion; nothing will change, so there's no point going into anything in depth; it will simply be dismissed due to that bias.
 

February-Saturday

Devil Worshiper
Nope. Not irate; just done. You're making claims about Xy that are based in your own biased opinion, and then presenting those opinions as fact. One can't fight biased opinion; nothing will change, so there's no point going into anything in depth; it will simply be dismissed due to that bias.

If that's what you have to tell yourself to stop bothering me, I will gladly endorse that narrative.
 

sojourner

Annoyingly Progressive Since 2006
If that's what you have to tell yourself to stop bothering me, I will gladly endorse that narrative.
Gee, I'm so sorry I've "bothered" you by daring to call you out and speak -- not to myself, but to you. I'm afraid you're just going to have to get mad and get glad in the same pants, my friend.
 
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